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Need Help! Having sexual issues 😅

mytreefiddy

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Anxiety is by far the most common cause of ED

THIS right here.... the mind is more powerful than anything... your brain is getting in the way
 

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What????? I can honestly say I've never heard a guy say they don't like getting their dick sucked.....Wow

Well you said it earlier; “You had to choke her on the 2nd date to get off.” Etc so yea also just like @USMuscle9403 said, most women honestly suck at giving blow jobs..

I like some nasty, degrading shit and despite me choking her and throwing her around a bit, I didn’t want to go that far. But let me rephrase, I like blow jobs the way I like them.. So I want that shit as far down her throat as possible with some gagging and slobber everywhere, tears coming down her face, dick slapping, some ball sucking and ass eating, spitting in her mouth/face etc... And yes, if you’re a man and never had your ass eaten, you’re missing out.. lmao

So I didn’t want to take it that far with her just yet, and I didn’t want to run the risk of getting some half assed blow job that only would’ve made her more insecure with my reaction lol..

But as others have said, I have experienced women are open to learning as well, it’s just rare I have the patience to teach them unless I really like them, which may be the case with this girl.
 

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5-10mg of cialis is a daily dose. while cialis can work in as fist as 10 min, for me it takes much longer. i notice a full dose 25-30mgs hitting at 3hr. take the daily dose at the same time ed and you should be gtg. if you want the extra of a full dose then take hrs before event and it will be going strong for 3 days. the chemistry should override the head fuckery.
 

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Well you said it earlier; “You had to choke her on the 2nd date to get off.” Etc so yea also just like @USMuscle9403 said, most women honestly suck at giving blow jobs..

I like some nasty, degrading shit and despite me choking her and throwing her around a bit, I didn’t want to go that far. But let me rephrase, I like blow jobs the way I like them.. So I want that shit as far down her throat as possible with some gagging and slobber everywhere, tears coming down her face, dick slapping, some ball sucking and ass eating, spitting in her mouth/face etc... And yes, if you’re a man and never had your ass eaten, you’re missing out.. lmao

So I didn’t want to take it that far with her just yet, and I didn’t want to run the risk of getting some half assed blow job that only would’ve made her more insecure with my reaction lol..

But as others have said, I have experienced women are open to learning as well, it’s just rare I have the patience to teach them unless I really like them, which may be the case with this girl.

Choking? I think you got the wrong person. I've actually never done that...I can't get into that. I have pulled their hair but it's obviously because they wanted it. Everyone has their kink, but I'm not chocking or spitting on someone.....no judgements, but that's not for me.
 

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dude its a head fuck. I have had girls make odd requests that during sex, I took personal like be more vocal. how about work your 'you know what to make me be me more vocal. Some girls are selfish af too. I didnt go down on hardly any gfs until this last one was such a cry baby about it, I have never liked going down on girlfriends. The last girl could ONLY finish by finishing herself , no other way or position - my ego took that as a hit as I have never had that happen.I used to watch her masterbate at the end and say in my head she is a pervert lol. This chick was wacked out and turns out she is bipolar npd etc lol. I had a few bad experieinces with some funky ass bitches down ther and I may have developed some trauma from it lol
 

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What????? I can honestly say I've never heard a guy say they don't like getting their dick sucked.....Wow
I drastically prefer vagina to mouth. If my gf is going to give me head I’d rather she just get on me cowgirl position (or reverse cowgirl) and fuck my dick with her pussy. Never understood the fascination with head tbh.
 

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I think kissing always does it for me I think it always increases passion during sex or anytime really. oxytocin :D
 

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I’m just worried about any possible side effects of the Cialis and also relying on it too much.. I’ve used that amount in the past and it worked fine but I might just take a whole 5mg tonight to not worry about it..

And I guess you’re right about the TRT effects, I would have to get bloods done to see exactly what’s going on, what I do find odd is that this past week I actually had some MILD nipple sensitivity and it kinda went away, but never felt that on 200mg before.. I know it’s not a sure fire way to know exactly but it’s something...
start with 10mg she will fall in love with you. rocket dick.cialis is a game changer . I used it for better sex in my 20s even when I did not need it whatsoever.
 

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Yeah cialis isn’t going to leave you broken from using it a few times.

Just stay away from nandrolone or really any wet steroid other than moderate dose test. DHTs are your friends :)
 

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I drastically prefer vagina to mouth. If my gf is going to give me head I’d rather she just get on me cowgirl position (or reverse cowgirl) and fuck my dick with her pussy. Never understood the fascination with head tbh.
Don't get me wrong, vagina is great. Ever heard the saying that if woman didn't have a vagina they would all have a bounty on their heads?
 

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Don't get me wrong, vagina is great. Ever heard the saying that if woman didn't have a vagina they would all have a bounty on their heads?
Yeah I mean head is like a nice chocolate chip cookie. It is great. But, sex is like a brownie with ice cream and whipped cream and hot fudge. It’s amazing.
 

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If the woman has talented hands and mouth it’s a very seductive show to be spoiled with hands first, then fellatio, and finish you riding. 😍
 

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You need to take 5 mgs of cialis about two hours before sex in order to be effective. Take it everyday at the same time of the day. Also, just because she’s good looking doesn’t mean the sexual chemistry is there, at least not yet. I also think you’re overthinking sex, instead of having sex. Most women can be made good in bed, but it takes time. So far, she’s not stimulating you mentally. This tells me you’re just going through the motions with her and trying to perform well, instead of doing with her—what really turns you on. We all have our fetishes. Some are just kinkier than others. If you don’t share your fetishes with her, you’re not going to be stimulated sexually and maintaining an erection will be difficult!!!
 

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One thing that made me really want sex was having it in a public place. Once in a graveyard and multiple times in the woods. Just make sure nobody is around! For me I think it was the excitement of getting caught that made it so hot.
 

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Anxiety is by far the most common cause of ED

Unquestionably true. The question is how to treat anxiety, or overcome it enough to relax and do the deed.

Avoiding stimulants or other drugs that can make you nervous and jittery is the first step, but what if the anxiety persists?

Having a drink or two is the answer for some people, some of the time. But as the old adage goes, alcohol increases the desire, but often hinders the performance. And too much alcohol clearly hurts performance in the bedroom.

Marijuana helps for some, but makes others nervous and paranoid (THC definitely makes me more anxious and OCD.)

Benzodiazepines are horrible long-term choices, although they certainly have their place in treating short-term anxiety. But again, benzos often are detrimental to libido and performance as well.

SSRI's can help with anxiety, but are infamous for killing libido and causing sexual dysfunction.

Therapy (especially CBT) seems safest, but works well for some and less well for others.

Like everything else, I suppose that the answer is individual, and people have to find the solution that works best for themselves.
 

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I have crippling anxiety and take a half dozen separate meds and popping pills all day long. Anyway one of the meds is Lexapro at X3 the FDAs recommended dosage for about 6 weeks and one of the sides is inability to bust a nut. You can try for hours but it won’t happen. I’m at X2 the recommended dose now and everything is working normal right now.

The shitty part about being on so many frankly powerful as F- meds is finding the right balance vs sides. I work with my psychiatrist weekly to tweak and improve things but sacrifices have to be made. Choices. Like be balanced enough to function and hold a job or cum?
 

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I'm not saying anything new, it's because of anxiety. When you get nervous and anxious, the fight or flight response kicks in and adrenaline well flow. Adrenaline is the ultimate boner killer. My first time as a teen having sex, I got nervous and couldn't perform. You know what that's like? It's a total mental melt down. Fortunately she was patient and we worked on it. But it will get better as you work through it. Take 50 mg Viagra or 10 mg Cialis. Nothing to lose. I didn't have that option back then, 1970s...
 

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Long post warning. DNP insomnia has me awake tonight.

Sounds like you are getting better, but you got to get out of your own head. Enjoy the moment. You think about it, you get anxious and it gets worse.

When you go down on her, don't think about your dick or being hard.

Cut out the porn and masterbation. It desensitizes you and messes up a lot of guys. Masterbation can be healthy, but lay off until over this hump.

Not just us on TRT / AAS use or need Cialis. Normal guys have 'off' periods. Stress at work, new partner, intimidation, anxiety, etc. Shit happens. Even 20 year old studs have nights they cant get going. It is completely normal to want or need some help.

Two or three times in a row can happen. First time is a fluke. Second is anxiety. Third is performance pressure. It happens.

Just don't let it stick in your head. A bad funk can stick with you for a long time. Pop a Cialis just in case before you see her - even if no sex. Learn to be excited around her. Focus on teasing (she should tease you, make you want it), and being in the moment. Dont think about performing. If you dont get going, she can do some work to fluff you up. Enjoy the experience. It may sound stupid, but a night of 'fooling around' like high school kids. First base to third, only oral / hand. Make it a game.

I had 'performance issues' with my now wife a decade ago when we first met. I wasnt on anything at the time (was on for sport but quit before I met her) and was 'fine'. It was a mental block. She wanted to take it slow but we quickly were in the sheets. When it wasnt working, I told her we were going to take it slow like she wanted. We talked about how long she wanted to wait previously (all women have a number in mind) so I used that. I had zero pressure and we had fun teasing, kissing, oral, etc. She wanted before I did, but I keep at it until I was consistently hard around her. I had to cut out porn and masterbation.

Now whenever I get performance issues I pull out the ol' teasing, waiting, and not getting off. I cut out porn and masterbation. If I am hormonally (AAS, cutting hard especially, etc) not up to it, I take a Cialis or Viagra to get it going.

Just remember, if its mental get out of your head and remove pressure. Games, teasing, oral only, anything to not put pressure on you finishing vaginally. Cialis is your friend and 5 mg is nothing. If its hormonal, which it could be, get blood work and see your TRT doctor. Estrogen could be high, low, or your TRT dose has too many dips which requires a higher dose.

If all else fails, a picture or two may spark better advice.
 

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I watch porn with my significant other of almost 5 years. Not often but once or twice a month. Sometimes not once in a month. It goes against what psychology says for a healthy relationship, but we have found it rewarding.
 

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