Hey Guys,
i am quite down at the moment.
I make a long story short because i need your advice:
- girlfriend chats with another dude in an online game since around 3-4 weeks.
- Since 1 week, they exchanged whatsapp and chat all day long.
- I tell her i dont like it, she says they are just friends, keeps chatting
- she tells me on saturday she would like to meet "this friend"
- i check online chat in game (she doesnt let her smartphone out of her hands although it was no problem months ago) and see they chat about sex ("a bed is all we need babe, blabla")
- I ask her wtf, she tells just friends and i shouldnt overreact, it was just fun, shit talk, she loves me, and wants to stay with me blabla
- I dont know if i want to believe her, go train, feel sick, cant sleep
- whole body muscle pain on sunday, can barely move, cant sleep
- go to work on monday, go to pee, see its like coke coloured
- go to doc, bp stress related through the roof (190/120), get diazepam (like benzo i guess) shot to calm. EKG is okay besides very high heart rate. sends me to urologist.
- Urologist takes ultrasounds from kidneys, nothing to see, got blood drawn, waiting for results now.
now i have read online and my symptoms seem to be a rhabdomyolyse. (fits almost 100%). I feel already much better today and pee is light again, but i am not sure if i should still go to ER?
now my questions for you guys.
- what should i do about my girlfriend. (more infos: we live together since 3 years, she has no driver license, she needs me to drive to work etc and the appartment is bought by myself --> she says she loves me to stay in appartment and use me as a driver etc..?)
- should i "throw her out" or make her an ultimatum?
- if i had rhabdo and i feel better, is it okay to go and start to train lightly again? i need something to keep me from thinking about the situation and tv sucks..)
sorry for the wall of text and the spelling mistakes, i still can not concentrate 100%..
Thanks for your help.. seems the saying is true.. iron stays forever, other things wont
i am quite down at the moment.
I make a long story short because i need your advice:
- girlfriend chats with another dude in an online game since around 3-4 weeks.
- Since 1 week, they exchanged whatsapp and chat all day long.
- I tell her i dont like it, she says they are just friends, keeps chatting
- she tells me on saturday she would like to meet "this friend"
- i check online chat in game (she doesnt let her smartphone out of her hands although it was no problem months ago) and see they chat about sex ("a bed is all we need babe, blabla")
- I ask her wtf, she tells just friends and i shouldnt overreact, it was just fun, shit talk, she loves me, and wants to stay with me blabla
- I dont know if i want to believe her, go train, feel sick, cant sleep
- whole body muscle pain on sunday, can barely move, cant sleep
- go to work on monday, go to pee, see its like coke coloured
- go to doc, bp stress related through the roof (190/120), get diazepam (like benzo i guess) shot to calm. EKG is okay besides very high heart rate. sends me to urologist.
- Urologist takes ultrasounds from kidneys, nothing to see, got blood drawn, waiting for results now.
now i have read online and my symptoms seem to be a rhabdomyolyse. (fits almost 100%). I feel already much better today and pee is light again, but i am not sure if i should still go to ER?
now my questions for you guys.
- what should i do about my girlfriend. (more infos: we live together since 3 years, she has no driver license, she needs me to drive to work etc and the appartment is bought by myself --> she says she loves me to stay in appartment and use me as a driver etc..?)
- should i "throw her out" or make her an ultimatum?
- if i had rhabdo and i feel better, is it okay to go and start to train lightly again? i need something to keep me from thinking about the situation and tv sucks..)
sorry for the wall of text and the spelling mistakes, i still can not concentrate 100%..
Thanks for your help.. seems the saying is true.. iron stays forever, other things wont