I wouldn't rush into having kids to soon, especially at your age. Hopefully you will be married, enjoying each other's lives for a while. Having children is going to change your whole world and is a big responsibilty. You better get your finances in order, because kids aren't cheap. Bt the way, I waited until 32, best thing IMO, I wasn't ready for that responsibility yet.
id 2nd this post...i waited til i was 31, and wonder if it was even a few years too early...dont get me wrong..my kids are my world but have some time to enjoy yourselves...you will be in a lot better place as a couple and as a person...once your kids are here it is 100% about them til they are old enough to take care of themselves...you n wife need to go on vacations alone, see as much of the world as possible, exp as much of life as possible, THEN have kids and teach them what you just learned
... Also the gf is 28 that's kinda why we were considering a baby
Yeh i fully agree guys , before starting a family most diffinetly take a rain check on it as i know first hand the strain it can put on a relationship don't get me wrong having kids is an awesome experience but make sure you and your partner are 110% ready and go live your lives fully before deciding. When Seamus and I first found out that I was expecting we were totally taking back but we were over joyed as it was what we both wanted, the reason we were so shocked was that he was on big doses at the time.Seamus had just opened his Gym so when Jessica arrived things were tough financially don t get me wrong our daughter never went without but at times it does be tough with the added pressure of a new born child and all the bodybuilding goals Seamus was wanting to achieve its not always easy. But looking back it was all worth it seeing how much Seamus acheived and how much love he had for us it was just priceless!! But on the other hand I would nt change a thing children are so very precious just like life itself so if its what you both want then I wish you both all the best and goodluck hope it all works out for you.