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I'll make this question as simple as I can.
And for you to be able to answer this question, you will have needed to be 100% in love at some point in your life.
If you had to pick one option which would you choose?
A. You're in a relationship that is working well. You've known this girl for 5 months. Like you, the girl is very chill and relaxed, drama free, and laid back. Her parents love you and her friends love you. She is open to your lifestyle and is ok with your decision to be taking steroids. Your parents love her and tell you to keep her around. She's very intelligent, very attractive, works out, and has completely fallen for you. She makes good money and is totally independent. She would do anything for you. You like her a lot and enjoy spending tons of time with her, but you're not in love with her. She is basically the perfect g/f yet you feel held back. She trusts you 100% and she treats you like a damn king but you feel like you can't love, sometimes you feel numb. In turn you almost feel guilty that you can't give her all of yourself because she is so deserving.
B. It's been 6 months since having contact with this girl. You're still in love with her. You know she still loves you too, but you havent talked or told her your feelings for months. You think about her daily. You had spent 5 years with this girl and you both had planned to spend forever together. She opened your eyes and showed you what true love is. When you were with this girl, everyone knew how madly in love you two were. It shined through everything. Your parents are bitter towards her. Her parents never had much of a relationship with you. Her friends now view you as the bad guy since things went sour. But when things were going well, things were perfect. She was NOT ok with your AAS usage, which caused many problems. She is ok with legal HRT through a specialist (which you have access to). She has some insecurity issues which in turn has caused trust issues. She always assumed the worst. She had bad habits of checking your phone and FB. The combo of steroids and her insecurities is why things went bad. But when trust was good in the past, everything was good. You can't stop thinking about her, ever. You don't want to let go and you fantasize about things working out with her. She was the closest thing to being your dream girl. She doesnt know it but she still has your heart completely.
So love?
Or logic?
Why?
And for you to be able to answer this question, you will have needed to be 100% in love at some point in your life.
If you had to pick one option which would you choose?
A. You're in a relationship that is working well. You've known this girl for 5 months. Like you, the girl is very chill and relaxed, drama free, and laid back. Her parents love you and her friends love you. She is open to your lifestyle and is ok with your decision to be taking steroids. Your parents love her and tell you to keep her around. She's very intelligent, very attractive, works out, and has completely fallen for you. She makes good money and is totally independent. She would do anything for you. You like her a lot and enjoy spending tons of time with her, but you're not in love with her. She is basically the perfect g/f yet you feel held back. She trusts you 100% and she treats you like a damn king but you feel like you can't love, sometimes you feel numb. In turn you almost feel guilty that you can't give her all of yourself because she is so deserving.
B. It's been 6 months since having contact with this girl. You're still in love with her. You know she still loves you too, but you havent talked or told her your feelings for months. You think about her daily. You had spent 5 years with this girl and you both had planned to spend forever together. She opened your eyes and showed you what true love is. When you were with this girl, everyone knew how madly in love you two were. It shined through everything. Your parents are bitter towards her. Her parents never had much of a relationship with you. Her friends now view you as the bad guy since things went sour. But when things were going well, things were perfect. She was NOT ok with your AAS usage, which caused many problems. She is ok with legal HRT through a specialist (which you have access to). She has some insecurity issues which in turn has caused trust issues. She always assumed the worst. She had bad habits of checking your phone and FB. The combo of steroids and her insecurities is why things went bad. But when trust was good in the past, everything was good. You can't stop thinking about her, ever. You don't want to let go and you fantasize about things working out with her. She was the closest thing to being your dream girl. She doesnt know it but she still has your heart completely.
So love?
Or logic?
Why?