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slept with chick after first date

matt1164

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recently (two days ago) I took some girl I met at a bar out and slept with her that night and the next day. we're both around 40 and she is pretty hot (so am I, lol).

anyway, my best friend, who is a female, says the girl is tramp and not worth getting into a serious relationship with. I disagreed with her.

any thoughts, I'd love to hear them.
 

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Sounds like your best friend wants to be more than friends.
 

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My rule of thumb when I was younger was that if I did a girl on the first date, maybe even 2nd date she was NOT a keeper and left it that way, didnt persue it any further than that, sex.

But you are older, and at that age women know what they want. She may not be a sleeze who knows. This you will have to find out for yourself and I dont think at that age because you slept with her she's a ho. If she's cool just play it day by day and see what happens and how she turns out.

I'm 35 and married so its been a while since I been in the game :(
 

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I don't see any issue here.;)
 

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You don't have to decide about a serious relationship now bro, you just met her days ago. You think she's hot and got laid, now is when you just date and hang out to get to know each other and see if you want a relationship.....Don't complicate it.
 

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BigEvil is right. Just roll with it. See if you like her and don't worry about what anyone thinks:D
 

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You don't have to decide about a serious relationship now bro, you just met her days ago. You think she's hot and got laid, now is when you just date and hang out to get to know each other and see if you want a relationship.....Don't complicate it.
:headbang:

solid advice right there... enjoy the moment my friend. forget about what other people think, and don't get so caught up in the moment that you lose clarity. trust your instincts and enjoy the ride...
 

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I agree with all the guys that have posted this far. Take it day by day and just enjoy the experience you are having now. Do not make anything more out of it than it is, and dont add any expecatations. I dont know if either of you have been married before, but if you have that can add many complications. I was married once before I met my current wife and my first wife cheated on me. Do not let pervious relationships impact this one. Try your best to start new and just take one day at a time.

Give each other plenty of space and do not smother each other. I think that if it turns out to be true love that you will each find yourselves longing to be with each other and before you know it youll be living togther and enjoy spending much of your freetime together. If it turns out to be true love, you will find that she becomes your best friend and someone that youll will be willing to tell your deepest secrets etc. Just give it time. No need to overthink things and try to plan ahead. Just wait and see how it all unfolds. You will know if things are right if you follow your instincts and dont try to overthink things.
 

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Further that the advice above which is all good..was the sex good. If it was average on her first go, it probably was the best she got..if it was terrible..its always gonna be terrible..if it was great, watch to see if the effort stays there as she, like you, is out there playing the field looking for something putting her best foot forward...go slow bro and walk before you run. I always say, if there is a hot chick out there and shes 40..there is a damn good reason shes available and it may not be evident to you yet..I tell this to my friends all the time and it doesn't take too long for the reason to be real clear...
 

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recently (two days ago) I took some girl I met at a bar out and slept with her that night and the next day. we're both around 40 and she is pretty hot (so am I, lol).

anyway, my best friend, who is a female, says the girl is tramp and not worth getting into a serious relationship with. I disagreed with her.

any thoughts, I'd love to hear them.


You took a girl home and bagned her on the first night and you're looking for advice? What kind of advice are you looking for? You can't put the genie back in the bottle afterwards. Now post some pics damn it! :D
 

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You took a girl home and bagned her on the first night and you're looking for advice? What kind of advice are you looking for? You can't put the genie back in the bottle afterwards. Now post some pics damn it! :D
:headbang:im with this guy... wheres the pics... keep bangin
 

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i dont see anything wrong with two consenting aldults having sex on the first date. when a man does it its fine but when a women does it shes a slut. maybe she liked what she saw. i slept with the girl im with now on the first date met off the internet that same night and were still together over a year later and shes the best girlfriend ive had in a long time so i wouldnt hold it against her one bit:D
 

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There's girls that don't put out on a first date?
 

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You're 40 years old. Whats the big fuckin' deal? You had sex. Whooppie-doo. What other earth-shattering news is there?

Buddy...it means nothing, it doesnt tell you anything about her, it doesnt mean it has to go somewhere, and it doesnt mean she's a tramp.

It means your're adult humans and you did what adult humans do. Nothing more, nothing less.
 

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I don't see any problems here:cool:
 

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recently (two days ago) I took some girl I met at a bar out and slept with her that night and the next day. we're both around 40 and she is pretty hot (so am I, lol).

anyway, my best friend, who is a female, says the girl is tramp and not worth getting into a serious relationship with. I disagreed with her.

any thoughts, I'd love to hear them.
I don't really see an issue here, if you were teenagers than maybe I'd listen more to this friend... But lets face it, neither of you are spring chickens, so jumping into bed on the first date is usually how it's done, not always but more often than not it is... I also don't feel that anyone can give an opinion of this woman without more information and even less without knowing her personally... The opening statement could be true of several different women, some of which are great, but regardless, take it slow, no need to "jump into anything" with anyone... Good luck...
 

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Hey, if she's a tramp then so are you...don't believe rumors, find out for yourself what a person is all about. She could be a great person with a bad rep, or a tramp with a heart of gold....what's the harm in finding out the truth for yourself?
 

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You took a girl home and bagned her on the first night and you're looking for advice? What kind of advice are you looking for? You can't put the genie back in the bottle afterwards. Now post some pics damn it! :D


I'd like to bump this!!!
 

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