What are we suppose to do?

[lacrosse64]

What are us guys suppose to do when the girls try to get us jealous. Here are some questions i have...
1. What do we say back?
2. What type of reaction are they expecting?
3. Whats the best way to handle the situation
examples of their bs:
1.She tells you how other guys late at night ask her to hang out etc and etc.
2.Talking about Past relationships and current booty calls or w.e
3.Straight up games they play with our heads
4.Mentioning cool plans not inviting you
5.Saying thngs like "Oh we should hang out call me later tonite" You make the call because you want some, but they dont pick up. (I HATE THIS BS)

I'll leave it for the pros to answer because its in another language to me. Thanks

 

[OuchThatHurts]

I don't even mess around with "girls" like that. I look for intelligent, mature, women who aren't married to their cell phones and have lives. You men need to start looking for woman with some class and maturity and not these little immature sperm receptacles. Since I started reading some of the threads in here, I pushed some of that out into the real world about cell phones with this text messaging. I can't believe what a problem it is in younger relationships! Don't even get me started on the MySpace thing. Most of it is pretty shallow.

When you have problems with head games like what you're mentioning, the only way to win is just not to play.

There are a few women on this board that chime in on these, I'd hope to hear how they feel. I think they know the inning and the score better than I do.

 

[lacrosse64]

I don't even mess around with "girls" like that. I look for intelligent, mature, women who aren't married to their cell phones and have lives. You men need to start looking for woman with some class and maturity and not these little immature sperm receptacles. Since I started reading some of the threads in here, I pushed some of that out into the real world about cell phones with this text messaging. I can't believe what a problem it is in younger relationships! Don't even get me started on the MySpace thing. Most of it is pretty shallow.

When you have problems with head games like what you're mentioning, the only way to win is just not to play.

There are a few women on this board that chime in on these, I'd hope to hear how they feel. I think they know the inning and the score better than I do.

I definetly agree with you that cell phones have completely changed the way the game works especially with texting, but be honest who doesnt love little immature sperm receptacles? Sure the time for maturity is when your looking for maybe a relationship, which i am not currently interested in right now so i got to learn how to play the games back against them.

 

[dragonfire101]

Sure the time for maturity is when your looking for maybe a relationship

Who says? or are those just your personal beliefs, which is fine.

 

[lacrosse64]

Who says? or are those just your personal beliefs, which is fine.

Thats just my opinion...I get what your saying its not 100% true, but for me i would like a maturity when im looking to settle down or go into a serious relationship. I never really deal with immature girls that thrive on drama. I just dont care about maturity. This thread is kinda based on girls that are for booty calls and dont really care if they act mature because I know it wont develop into anything further. Hope that explains it

 

[alteredbeast]

What are us guys suppose to do when the girls try to get us jealous. Here are some questions i have...
1. What do we say back?
2. What type of reaction are they expecting?
3. Whats the best way to handle the situation
examples of their bs:
1.She tells you how other guys late at night ask her to hang out etc and etc.
2.Talking about Past relationships and current booty calls or w.e
3.Straight up games they play with our heads
4.Mentioning cool plans not inviting you
5.Saying thngs like "Oh we should hang out call me later tonite" You make the call because you want some, but they dont pick up. (I HATE THIS BS)

I'll leave it for the pros to answer because its in another language to me. Thanks

1. Nothing
2. Something
3 (1-4). Smile and Laugh
3.5 Have her call you

If she walks, good, she was a headcase anyway. If she sticks around it'll be because you're the man and you just don't give a fuck.

 

[ELIMINATOR]

Damn, 1 and 4 I can relate with, lol. Really were both probably getting with the wrong girls, and need to get some and be done.

 

[OuchThatHurts]

I definetly agree with you that cell phones have completely changed the way the game works especially with texting, but be honest who doesnt love little immature sperm receptacles? Sure the time for maturity is when your looking for maybe a relationship, which i am not currently interested in right now so i got to learn how to play the games back against them.

LOL... well then than that's what you're in for: a bunch of games and stress. I hope at least the sex is good. Enjoy.

 

[maxsupplements]

read one book..

www.doubleyourdating.com


i will get flamed for this. but my lord. this answers all your questions...


just get the book...


you are the MAN. dont let some girl decide how you are feeling.. jealousy is something women use to play games...

ALTERED BEAST had some great answers..

just smile and nod, act like it doesnt phase you ONE BIT... they are trying to seee how much they can affect you...

just "smile and nod"

thats all... if they ask you how you feel, just smile and chuckle, then she says , "WHAT?? WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING" then just reply, "honey, those games may work on those little "boys" that you have dated in the past, but as far as I am concerned, it doenst phase me"

remember, if you deal with mature women, as OTH pointed out, you dont deal with games. i QUIT DEALING with the young ones.. too flakey, and too dang IMMATURE!!

now i deal with real women, that i DONT meet in bars, and i will say this, they are classier, easier to talk to, dont play NEARLY as many games, have some sort of sophistication to them, and are even funner and more interesting to be around...

also, if you cant beat them at their own game, then JOIN THEM!! PLAY GAMES BACK BRO!!!

 

[strongmind]

If you're not looking for a serious relationship, then why do you care? I'm sure there are plenty of other "booty calls" out there if this one is jerking you around. If you're gonna play games, expect to get played. It's just that simple. When you're ready for a real relationship, you won't put up with all the BS. Until then... good luck, have fun, and wear a condom!!

 

[ScorpioGirl]

I'm assuming you're not really looking for a serious relationship buy the comment that went something like "so I make the call because I want some". If that's ALL you want, you probably have the right girl and you're just going to have to deal with the bs until you get what you want.....a game for a game....so to speak.

If you want a serious relationship - don't waste your time with games.

 

[maxsupplements]

exactly what these women said...

they both said this and its true..

when you are ready for a serious relationship, you will find one.. you wont have to deal with games...

real WOMEN dont play games.. as long as they are lookin for the same thing you are, its good to put out in the front, "I dont play games" before you even get to that point!!!

 

[vitor]

Women are dogs like men. Just remember that and u will be fine, anything u can do she will do, cheat, mess around, and I know if im not picking up my phone late at night and my girl is calling I am either

a. Too Drunk to pick up
B. Cheating
C. Mad at her
D. Playing games

Either way your screwed

 

[ripped_one]

You don't need her permission to date others. Date other people, go out with your friends, and if she wants you, she'll call you, if not, you saved your time.

 

[Sigmund Roid]

LaCrosse64,

You reap what you sow. In other words the behaviors you engage in are what you will receive in return. If you want to live like that it's your choice.

It's not for me because someone always gets hurt. When you are settled down and decide to look for a mate. Will you want a girl who has been lied to, cheated on, used or has learned to do that to others?

I don't think you will want a woman like that for a wife, so why bother?

This is only my opinion. I have desires as well.

Good luck, LaCrosse.

 

[donveto]

Those are usually my clues hit the road. I was out with one of the chics I have been going out in public with since I dont know maybe thanksgiving. Anyway I only drink everyother weekend this is a Thursday night at one of my local spots she is getting a good buzz and was getting pissy cuz I wouldnt buy her a drink- she starts the game of rubbing her body (which is pretty damn sweet) on this dude she knew at the bar to get a drink..so I noticed this brunette on the other side that I have never scene there before she is with a old school buddy of mine that come to find out is her cousin- long story short I left with her number and a lunch date next weekend.

Dont let chicks get the best of you! I know its hard but if U sut around and let them have the upper hand you mine as well hand in your man card and donate your balls to science.

OTH said it best, the mature ones are best, this whole myspace and tmobile sidekick text messaging era is a joke (and P.S. they are so concered with being "HOTT" and unabtanable that they never learned how to screw and I dont have the time to teach)

The chick I got the number from..excuse me I will call this one a woman, 28 years old (3 years my senior) is a 4th grade teacher that was only out because of school break. She doesnt have a myspace page and when I was talking to her her phone rang she didnt answer it! Now that is a girl I might invest some time into.

I look at it this way, I love my life(most of the time)
A relationship is a commitment which means I would have to give up alot of stuff.. My strict dieting that I love doing to no end would suffer cuz girls like to eat out. My personal time would be cut back cuz girls are needy.
I have not missed a workout in 2 years and I know with a real g/f I would miss some.
I dont like TV and would rather read a book at night- not with a g/f
I like to be in control of what I do..period

Now I know if I get married things will change - so why in the name of god would I give up my life for a girl that is a common whore that is going to play head games with me?

It is going to take a very special "woman" to make me change my ways.

Until then Aint no P*ssy tighter than my right hand!

 

[BigBoyJ]

I don't even mess around with "girls" like that. I look for intelligent, mature, women who aren't married to their cell phones and have lives. You men need to start looking for woman with some class and maturity and not these little immature sperm receptacles. Since I started reading some of the threads in here, I pushed some of that out into the real world about cell phones with this text messaging. I can't believe what a problem it is in younger relationships! Don't even get me started on the MySpace thing. Most of it is pretty shallow.

When you have problems with head games like what you're mentioning, the only way to win is just not to play.

There are a few women on this board that chime in on these, I'd hope to hear how they feel. I think they know the inning and the score better than I do.

Man, I thought I was the only person on the planet that hates myspace. I think that shit should be banned world wide. I think it does nothing but create problems. If I was a hacker I'd bust in there and kill it with a virus.

 

[donveto]

I love the pages that single moms have.. Just think 20-30 years from now there are going to be kids that have mothers that were myspace whores. it is sickening really..

I likd it at first I hooked up with a few chicks , but it is out of control ! you have pics of 17 year olds with next to nothing on..

It goes hand in hand with the tramp stamp tattoos on girls backs.....

Grandkid in 30-40 years...."Hey grandma what is that big black stain on your back, do you have skin cancer? "

Grandmother, "oh no dear Im fine, I got that when I was "HOTT" , your granddaddy saw it on my myspace page..I had a picture of me when I was 17 funnelling beers and he saw that tattoo and sent me a message saying I was so hott!- So we went to Applebee's for a fancy dinner - 9 months later a stourk dropped your mommy off on my parents door- that is where we lived cuz granddaddy had no job and I knew your mom was coming so I dropped out of highschool and and became a customer service rep at the citgo station- so if it wasnt for myspace and my tribal/butterfly/angel tattoo you wouldnt be here today!"


Sorry if I ticked anyone off Im just playing around no need to take offense..
Yes I have a myspace page and yes I have a picture with no shirt on-

 

[lilkoreangirl]

Very simple...

If you want a girl, play her games
If you want a lady, treat her like one
If you want a woman, be ready baby, the good ones are high maintenance, but we're worth every bit of it...

LKG

 

[Malic777.com]

"Until then Aint no P*ssy tighter than my right hand!" ...alex