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Wife doesn't listen to me.

mikeygrubs

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So I have not posted in a while. Due to renovations in the house took a lot of my time up. I can't deal with my wife any more she complains that she is fat which she is not she has some lower stomach fat. But she had 2 kids. 14 months apart youngest is 5 months. I try to tell her how to eat what do to exercise wise. But she does not listen instead she starves her self. I caught her oneday eating one meal in the morning which wasn't even a meal. When we fight about it she throws in my face it's easy For you cause of what u take. Hmmn. I know some may critique that I tell her what I take but that's on me. I don't know how to train her she won't go to fun with me she won't train home with me and she don't listen to anything I say. Im not the biggest or leanest but I do have interest in this sport and I'm sure I can help her a little. What some of you guys do get her to trust me. It's so aggravating. OK enough complaining. Let me hear what toy guys gotta say.

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Rule# 1- You can only help people that want to be helped and that are ready to help themselves.....

If I were you then I would just stop feeding her the attention that she's looking for. No disrespect, but it sounds like she got some mental issues and she needs to seak out therapy for those problems. I would say that she's just looking for attention so that she can hear you say, "No honey, you're not fat, you look great," but if she's actually starving herself then she needs psychological help.

I could see this being the demise of your marriage if you don't get a hold of the issue sooner, rather than later. A marriage works both ways, my friend. You can't do all the work for her. If she isn't willing to put in the work then I would strongly considering moving on. I know that sounds harsh, but believe me I've been through a lot of marital issues and a lot of therapy. Now my marriage is better than ever.
 
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im not expert



but sounds like she should talk to a therapist.. maybe get some marriage counseling.



ive seen this kinda shit before, and it rarely ends well
 
Rule# 1- You can only help people that want to be helped and that are ready to help themselves.....

If I were you then I would just stop feeding her the attention that she's looking for. No disrespect, but it sounds like she got some mental issues and she needs to seak out therapy for those problems. I would say that she's just looking for attention so that she can hear you say, "No honey, you're not fat, you look great," but if she's actually starving herself then she needs psychological help.

I could see this being the demise of your marriage if you don't get a hold of the issue sooner, rather than later. A marriage works both ways, my friend. You can't do all the work for her. If she isn't willing to put in the work then I would strongly considering moving on. I know that sounds harsh, but believe me I've been through a lot of marital issues and a lot of therapy. Now my marriage is better than ever.

Medic08 hit the nail on the head with this one. You cant force someone in to getting involved in a physical routine. Ive been through that with a few physically self concious ex girl friends and buddies. I offer help some come and taper off after a few weeks and some dont take the chance at all. And as far as the yea its easy for you because of what you take statement... normal people that dont do what we do or never tried what we triedddon't understand that when you're "ON" you have to work twice as hard to get twice the gains. Magic pills dont exist and they dont understand that. They here juice and they think it's "pop, swallow, hangout, now im ronnie coleman" like medic08 said it sounds like either attention or a problem that needs addressed now. Vaginas are awesome man but unfortunately they're all attached to a female which 99% are mentally insecure or unstable. A fleshlight is the answer. Just kidding but clearly you care about your lady or you would be posting. Try to make her understand that hard work is hard work whether you're "ON" or off there's no easy way out and you're willing to help. Like my bro medic08 said, perhaps some marriage counseling or other source of outside help is needed. Best of luck man for real I mean that. I hate to see a bro struggling with a feeling type of situation. Keep us posted
 
Thanks for the replies ya looks like this just got a lot more personal fire me cause I wasn't thinking the way you guys are causer she is my wife. Thanks for waking me up lol. Going to have to address this next time she wants to wine.

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Rule# 1- You can only help people that want to be helped and that are ready to help themselves.....

If I were you then I would just stop feeding her the attention that she's looking for. No disrespect, but it sounds like she got some mental issues and she needs to seak out therapy for those problems. I would say that she's just looking for attention so that she can hear you say, "No honey, you're not fat, you look great," but if she's actually starving herself then she needs psychological help.

I could see this being the demise of your marriage if you don't get a hold of the issue sooner, rather than later. A marriage works both ways, my friend. You can't do all the work for her. If she isn't willing to put in the work then I would strongly considering moving on. I know that sounds harsh, but believe me I've been through a lot of marital issues and a lot of therapy. Now my marriage is better than ever.


im with Medic08, my girlfriend went through a period like this coz she gained a little weight, was doing basically the exact same thing

things wouldve ended badly if we hadnt resolved it by sitting down and talking about it

although yours is alot more complicated, i had the advantage of not being married so when my girlfriend felt insecure she was pretty fast at trying to get into shape to keep me interested
 
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I've been through this before. She's obviously very insecure and has deep emotional issues going on, seeing a specialist might be a good idea. She just needs something to snap her out of the mental state she's in. Try your best to make her feel like she's the most beautiful person in the world and she means everything to you, hopefly she'll come around. Good luck buddy
 
All you can do is reassure her that she is still beautiful and that you're there for her if she wants advice on diet and training you'll do whatever you can for her. She has some shame attached to the small amount of weight she's put on, so maybe it would be easier for her to work with a trainer / nutritionist on her own.
 
I'm 35 year old father of three married for 15 years. Women have parts of their brain that men do not have. You aren't going to understand your woman. But pulling away from her isn't the answer. Thats not why you got married. The most important thing you can do, for your kids, is love your wife through it all. Shower her with compliments and notice all the things she does to help. Women need constant feedback and they process things by talking it out. Men don't and don't get it. But thats fine you're job is to listen and nod your head every 7 seconds.

The postpartum suggestion above might be something you want to google. The second kid, for us, was exponentially more stressful and you can't tell depression until a 3rd party (counselor) puts in an objective opinion.

Also my wife lost all her weight from breastfeeding which made her hungry anyways.
 
My wife does the same thing. She gained some weight when I was down range one year and for the last year or so she has been complaining about losing it. She sounds similar to your wife OP. She eats what I eat for the most part when we have meals together. But I am at work a lot so it's not as often as it should be. Basically I am not there to watch her eat. But I make her come to the gym with me. And when she starts to complain, I tell her "that her mind is weak". Normally she picks up the slack. Anyway long story short. Try to get her to go with the gym with you or get her a heart monitor. Got my wife one and she makes it a game to see how many cals she can burn. Either way good luck


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I know very few women that EVER listen to their husbands anyway!

Seriously though, I am with Medic on this one. Your wife will help herself when she is ready and until then you should probably leave the subject alone.
 
I know very few women that EVER listen to their husbands anyway!
Seriously though, I am with Medic on this one. Your wife will help herself when she is ready and until then you should probably leave the subject alone.

Maybe so, but my wife does every thing I tell her to do 20% of the time.
 
It doesn't matter if you are the world's most renowned trainer-dietician...she will probably never completely surrender herself to your advice on diet, traininng, etc. Actually, this goes for pretty much everything. Why? Because you are her husband. She will never percieve you the way others percieve you, regardless of your competence in this area. A wife is naturally resistant--immune even--to yeilding to the wisdom of her husband and letting him take control. This is not to say that things can't improve, but by your very position, in her eyes you are incapable of attaining expert status in any area that she struggles with. Sure, she will whine to you...complain to you...bitch to you...and even come off like she expects you to fix her problems, but she will never surrender and let you take the reigns.

Don't worry--it's like this with all women to varying degrees. They're inherently resistant to submission and refuse to admit defeat. Every marriage has its problems, right? All couples argue, right? Knowing that, let's look at the following example. Picture a typical wife and husband that get into an argument, but this husband just so happens to be a world-famous marriage counselor with multiple books authored on the subject. Do you think his wife is EVER going to sit down in the middle of an argument and be willingly counseled by her husband on how to deal with their conflict, even if he is providing the best advice possible? Hell no. He will get about as much respect on that subject as your wife gives you when it comes to training and diet.


Now, have this same wife sit down with a "different" marriage counselor, one that she doesn't know...even one with inferior credentials, and she will eagerly soak up everything he has to say. In the same way, you could allow your wife to hire some two-bit hack trainer who doesn't know jack-shit about training or diet and she will listen to every word he says...or at least try.

Over the years I have been paid by numerous people for my advice on the subject of BB'ing...most of whom never question my advice, yet my wife has just recently--in the last few months--began opening up to the possibility that I might not be a complete dolt when it comes to knowing how to lose fat and build muscle. For years she would second-guess literally everything I told her and ultimately end up doing her own thing. It didn't matter how respected I might have been by anyone else--to her I was "just her husband".

So, don't take it personally. When she whines, just listen to what she has to say and then tell her she is the most beautiful woman in the world and that there is nothing about her body you would ever want to change. Do this every time...and no matter what she says, never deny it. She will know you are full of shit, but she will be happy to hear it. Much of the time, women just want their husbands to listen to them talk about how they feel--not to fix their problems, so avoid offering up solutions and just listen emphatically. She will talk until she feels better and then it will be over--until the next time.
 
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Glucagon injections.

Horrible and dangerous advice. The liver only has a certain amount of glycogen stores which is used when the body goes into shock. Glucagon is given in a hypoglycemic diabetic emergency when an IV can not be established to administer D50. Glucagon pulls glycogen from the liver stores and converts it into glucose to be introduced into the blood stream to increase blood sugar. If you continually rob the liver of glycogen then there will not be any when the body needs it during critical phase such as shock.

Even after I give glucagon to my patients I still continue to search for an IV so I can give D50 and stop the glucagon from pulling glycogen from the liver.

I don't care if guys are using this to lose weight. It's not smart and can be very dangerous. Not dangerous enough to kill you immediately like insulin, but dangerous to rob your body of livers glycogen stores. The glycogen in your liver and the glycogen in your muscles are not related. Once glycogen in the liver is gone, that's it. It's not restored.
 
It doesn't matter if you are the world's most renowned trainer-dietician...she will probably never completely surrender herself to your advice on diet, traininng, etc. Actually, this goes for pretty much everything. Why? Because you are her husband. She will never percieve you the way others percieve you, regardless of your competence in this area. A wife is naturally resistant--immune even--to yeilding to the wisdom of her husband and letting him take control. This is not to say that things can't improve, but by your very position, in her eyes you are incapable of attaining expert status in any area that she struggles with. Sure, she will whine to you...complain to you...bitch to you...and even come off like she expects you to fix her problems, but she will never surrender and let you take the reigns.

Don't worry--it's like this with all women to varying degrees. They're inherently resistant to submission and refuse to admit defeat. Every marriage has its problems, right? All couples argue, right? Knowing that, let's look at the following example. Picture a typical wife and husband that get into an argument, but this husband just so happens to be a world-famous marriage counselor with multiple books authored on the subject. Do you think his wife is EVER going to sit down in the middle of an argument and be willingly counseled by her husband on how to deal with their conflict, even if he is providing the best advice possible? Hell no. He will get about as much respect on that subject as your wife gives you when it comes to training and diet.


Now, have this same wife sit down with a "different" marriage counselor, one that she doesn't know...even one with inferior credentials, and she will eagerly soak up everything he has to say. In the same way, you could allow your wife to hire some two-bit hack trainer who doesn't know jack-shit about training or diet and she will listen to every word he says...or at least try.

Over the years I have been paid by numerous people for my advice on the subject of BB'ing...most of whom never question my advice, yet my wife has just recently--in the last few months--began opening up to the possibility that I might not be a complete dolt when it comes to knowing how to lose fat and build muscle. For years she would second-guess literally everything I told her and ultimately end up doing her own thing. It didn't matter how respected I might have been by anyone else--to her I was "just her husband".

So, don't take it personally. When she whines, just listen to what she has to say and then tell her she is the most beautiful woman in the world and that there is nothing about her body you would ever want to change. Do this every time...and no matter what she says, never deny it. She will know you are full of shit, but she will be happy to hear it. Much of the time, women just want their husbands to listen to them talk about how they feel--not to fix their problems, so avoid offering up solutions and just listen emphatically. She will talk until she feels better and then it will be over--until the next time.


Now this my friends is a smart man. I promise this is what 98% of women want from there husbands.

Mike I think this is the best post I've ever seen from you.

If you guys are smart you'll soak this up. This man knows a woman without a doubt.
 
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It doesn't matter if you are the world's most renowned trainer-dietician...she will probably never completely surrender herself to your advice on diet, traininng, etc. Actually, this goes for pretty much everything. Why? Because you are her husband. She will never percieve you the way others percieve you, regardless of your competence in this area. A wife is naturally resistant--immune even--to yeilding to the wisdom of her husband and letting him take control. This is not to say that things can't improve, but by your very position, in her eyes you are incapable of attaining expert status in any area that she struggles with. Sure, she will whine to you...complain to you...bitch to you...and even come off like she expects you to fix her problems, but she will never surrender and let you take the reigns.

Don't worry--it's like this with all women to varying degrees. They're inherently resistant to submission and refuse to admit defeat. Every marriage has its problems, right? All couples argue, right? Knowing that, let's look at the following example. Picture a typical wife and husband that get into an argument, but this husband just so happens to be a world-famous marriage counselor with multiple books authored on the subject. Do you think his wife is EVER going to sit down in the middle of an argument and be willingly counseled by her husband on how to deal with their conflict, even if he is providing the best advice possible? Hell no. He will get about as much respect on that subject as your wife gives you when it comes to training and diet.


Now, have this same wife sit down with a "different" marriage counselor, one that she doesn't know...even one with inferior credentials, and she will eagerly soak up everything he has to say. In the same way, you could allow your wife to hire some two-bit hack trainer who doesn't know jack-shit about training or diet and she will listen to every word he says...or at least try.

Over the years I have been paid by numerous people for my advice on the subject of BB'ing...most of whom never question my advice, yet my wife has just recently--in the last few months--began opening up to the possibility that I might not be a complete dolt when it comes to knowing how to lose fat and build muscle. For years she would second-guess literally everything I told her and ultimately end up doing her own thing. It didn't matter how respected I might have been by anyone else--to her I was "just her husband".

So, don't take it personally. When she whines, just listen to what she has to say and then tell her she is the most beautiful woman in the world and that there is nothing about her body you would ever want to change. Do this every time...and no matter what she says, never deny it. She will know you are full of shit, but she will be happy to hear it. Much of the time, women just want their husbands to listen to them talk about how they feel--not to fix their problems, so avoid offering up solutions and just listen emphatically. She will talk until she feels better and then it will be over--until the next time.

Mike, you've been pretty active lately which is a good thing. Your posts are always very informative and detailed. Glad to see you posting more lately.
 
Horrible and dangerous advice.

Really?

People use this all the time.

Found this info online:

"Effects of a Glucagon Overdose
Expected effects of an overdose with glucagon include:

Nausea and vomiting
Diarrhea
Temporary slowing of the digestive tract
Temporary high blood pressure (hypertension)
Temporary rapid heart rate (tachycardia)
Low blood potassium levels (hypokalemia).

Because the effects of a glucagon overdose are typically minor and short-lived, and because untreated low blood sugar can be fatal, most people should not worry about accidentally giving an overdose of this medication."


Source: Glucagon Overdose

Are lipostabil and tiratricol dangerous too?
 
Really?

People use this all the time.

Found this info online:

"Effects of a Glucagon Overdose
Expected effects of an overdose with glucagon include:

Nausea and vomiting
Diarrhea
Temporary slowing of the digestive tract
Temporary high blood pressure (hypertension)
Temporary rapid heart rate (tachycardia)
Low blood potassium levels (hypokalemia).

Because the effects of a glucagon overdose are typically minor and short-lived, and because untreated low blood sugar can be fatal, most people should not worry about accidentally giving an overdose of this medication."


Source: Glucagon Overdose

Are lipostabil and tiratricol dangerous too?

I wasn't referring to glucagon OD's. I was talking about using it when it's not necessary. That's why I made sure to note that its dangerous effects won't be noticed in acute setting, but in a critical setting such as diabetic shock. They're not dangerous medications that will kill you immediately like insulin. If I happen to have a hypoglycemic episode the. I want glycogen in my liver so that it can be used in my blood stream.

I wasn't referring to glucagon OD's at all.
 

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