So a little background first on me. I am 26, tried very hard for all of my life to never have a serious relationship or anything that even remotely resembled one and did a damn fine job until about 2 months ago when I met my current girlfriend. Some of you are probably wondering why stay clear of a commitment (please spare me the "it's the best feeling in the world waking up to a woman you care about" speech). Reason is I am very focused on myself, my career and my goals in life and for that reason I'd usually go on a few dates with the woman, usually have sex a few times then casually move on usually leaving no hard feeling what so ever. Recently however after being with this girl and spending more time with her than all other women previously combined I have been opened to a whole new side of the womanly world that I have never previously seen and to be honest....I don't like one single bit. So my question is...is this really how most women act in relationships and if so...how the hell do you guys deal with this? I am of course referring to the
-1-3 hours to get ready to go anywhere. God forbid it's someplace really nice and even more time is required. I honestly thought this was just a myth about woman taking this long.
-Emotional and sensitive as hell. Do you guys always have to filter nearly everything that comes out? A few weeks back I made the terrible mistake during a conversation of saying that Jessica Alba was a 10...and then it came...The dreaded words...."What do you think I am?" Now my girls smokin for sure but she's no Jessica Alba so I said a 9.5...........Still having nightmares about the aftermath ((
-Insecure. Anytime other attractive women are around it's as if she's just waiting for me to take a look or make a comment to use it as ammo in the future.
-Time just....gone! It feels like I don't even have a day to myself anymore. Do all woman in relationships always want to spend THAT much time together? I actually told her recently that "Yea, if we saw eachother once a week or every 10 days that'd be fine with me"....I thought she was going to break down and cry right there at the cheesecake factory so I quickly recovered and pretended it was a joke. I mean....if your women are like this too how the hell do you guys have your alone time?
I know my girl is relatively high maintenance in the attention and emotion category but I'm curious if most women are as well and what you guys do to accept or combat it? Muchas gracias amigos!
-1-3 hours to get ready to go anywhere. God forbid it's someplace really nice and even more time is required. I honestly thought this was just a myth about woman taking this long.
-Emotional and sensitive as hell. Do you guys always have to filter nearly everything that comes out? A few weeks back I made the terrible mistake during a conversation of saying that Jessica Alba was a 10...and then it came...The dreaded words...."What do you think I am?" Now my girls smokin for sure but she's no Jessica Alba so I said a 9.5...........Still having nightmares about the aftermath ((
-Insecure. Anytime other attractive women are around it's as if she's just waiting for me to take a look or make a comment to use it as ammo in the future.
-Time just....gone! It feels like I don't even have a day to myself anymore. Do all woman in relationships always want to spend THAT much time together? I actually told her recently that "Yea, if we saw eachother once a week or every 10 days that'd be fine with me"....I thought she was going to break down and cry right there at the cheesecake factory so I quickly recovered and pretended it was a joke. I mean....if your women are like this too how the hell do you guys have your alone time?
I know my girl is relatively high maintenance in the attention and emotion category but I'm curious if most women are as well and what you guys do to accept or combat it? Muchas gracias amigos!