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I think that a lot of it has to do with women being intimidated by huge guys... When I was in my early 20s, I used to date mostly older women and I learned a lot by talking to them asking questions about women in general... At age 18, the first older girlfriend in had was 35, a psych major and aerobics instructor... she taught me a lot about women's body action as well as their ways of thinking...
One thing she pointed out to me was after she introduced me to a few friends, she told me to observe their eye movements... if the women looks at her eyes first, before looking at me, then back at my girl; it was a sign of respect as if asking for permission to interact or talk to her male partner... it could also depending on body language mean that she wanted to imagine us having sex; or she might want to join us (she was bisexual and we did that a lot)
Then she told me that if a women looks at me, but ignores her; it's very disrespectful... This happened a few times at restaurants with hostesses...
Finally, I'll get to the relevant part. (we dated off and on casually, because I had moved several times, I went to school in Italy for a year, then Miami, then Mexico for a year) this time I was bigger and around age 23, about 230lbs, but on the smooth side, but to most outsiders I looked like all muscle I had faint abs...
Any route, I asked her about a couple of women who she told me liked me, but I thought were disinterested...
She said that women sometimes shy away if they are intimidated... According to her most women are very insecure, it's usually the ones who seem most confident who are the most afraid of rejection, that's why you'll often see knockouts with average guys...
Then she said, that it could also be the size that's intimidating too... most bodybuilders look a bit scary to women, especially if you always look serious... So take it for what it's worth...
Personally I've tested this out, I was at a gym a year later, when I saw the hottest girl I've ever seen in my life...
She was incredibly gorgeous, picture Kiera Augustina's ass, and body but perfect boobs, a young Ashley Jud's face, with baby blue eyes and perfect Colgate commercial smile... impeccable skin... she seemed disinterested, but my heart was pounding as if I had eaten 5 ephedrine capsules... I want her het go into the locker room and come out; do I approached her immediately
I wasn't a guy who approached women a lot back then... she looked lost, so I asked her if someone was going to train her (It was my older brother's gym, so that helped me introduce myself)
She said it was her first day in a gym! I was shocked because this girl would've done well in bikini the way she looked, she had great legs, a hint if abs, but not overly muscles, like a ballerina, but with more curves and abs...
So I trained her for 3 days in a row, then I finally told her that we went through the entire body and if she's like to go out sometime... her face got red as he'll, then she smiled and let out a nervous laugh and told me shed love that...
So we dated, moved in together for a few months and I learned a lot from her as well... she told me that her first impression of me was that I was a douche and was probably real conceited, I probably thought very highly if myself and I was used to getting any woman I wanted...
Later she told me that she had intentions of dumping me to bring me down a notch; maybe pretend she was going to fuck me, but then not follow through; but at the same time she was wanted to fuck my brains out...
She also told me that she had broken up with a serious boyfriend who was an asshole and a couple of reasons she wanted to date me was 1. To piss him off. 2. To show her friends that she 'upgraded' 3. To show off to other girls...
On the other hand; at the same time she hated me and everything I stood for... in either event the sex was awesome, she was also bisexual, so we fucked a lot of hot girls together; but she was also nuts, fucking nuts... (she jumped out of a 2nd story window because she tbought i was going to cheat on her with a girl from the gym, i nean wtf!?!, guess she didn't want to be left out)
Finally after we broke up. I dated a very average dark skinned Mexican girl with an average body, all she did was ask about my ex, because all of her friends at the mall kept telling her how beautiful she was and how perfect her body was... (At the time, I lived in an apartment across the street from a mall)
But what I noticed is that after I dated this average girl; I had women lined up! Swear to God! I'd have girls coming to my door and knocking wanting to hang out, striking up conversations; girls I've never met, came to my apartment and knocked on my door and would walk right in! Sure this was in Mexico in 1997, but still applies, that year helped me figure out a lot about women...
Next time you see gorgeous women posting endless selfies on instagram, notice that she'll likely be with some average guy... Also notice how so many women love posting pictures of either their cars, jewelry, gifts; or their man's car, or house, etc... A lot of this shit is to outdo one another... Did I know I was being used? Sure, did I care? Maybe a little, but I got a lot of ass and that made me feel better about the whole situation...
The purpose of that book I just wrote?
I don't know; just my sme if my experiences use the information as applicable to guide you through your journey of life...
One thing she pointed out to me was after she introduced me to a few friends, she told me to observe their eye movements... if the women looks at her eyes first, before looking at me, then back at my girl; it was a sign of respect as if asking for permission to interact or talk to her male partner... it could also depending on body language mean that she wanted to imagine us having sex; or she might want to join us (she was bisexual and we did that a lot)
Then she told me that if a women looks at me, but ignores her; it's very disrespectful... This happened a few times at restaurants with hostesses...
Finally, I'll get to the relevant part. (we dated off and on casually, because I had moved several times, I went to school in Italy for a year, then Miami, then Mexico for a year) this time I was bigger and around age 23, about 230lbs, but on the smooth side, but to most outsiders I looked like all muscle I had faint abs...
Any route, I asked her about a couple of women who she told me liked me, but I thought were disinterested...
She said that women sometimes shy away if they are intimidated... According to her most women are very insecure, it's usually the ones who seem most confident who are the most afraid of rejection, that's why you'll often see knockouts with average guys...
Then she said, that it could also be the size that's intimidating too... most bodybuilders look a bit scary to women, especially if you always look serious... So take it for what it's worth...
Personally I've tested this out, I was at a gym a year later, when I saw the hottest girl I've ever seen in my life...
She was incredibly gorgeous, picture Kiera Augustina's ass, and body but perfect boobs, a young Ashley Jud's face, with baby blue eyes and perfect Colgate commercial smile... impeccable skin... she seemed disinterested, but my heart was pounding as if I had eaten 5 ephedrine capsules... I want her het go into the locker room and come out; do I approached her immediately
I wasn't a guy who approached women a lot back then... she looked lost, so I asked her if someone was going to train her (It was my older brother's gym, so that helped me introduce myself)
She said it was her first day in a gym! I was shocked because this girl would've done well in bikini the way she looked, she had great legs, a hint if abs, but not overly muscles, like a ballerina, but with more curves and abs...
So I trained her for 3 days in a row, then I finally told her that we went through the entire body and if she's like to go out sometime... her face got red as he'll, then she smiled and let out a nervous laugh and told me shed love that...
So we dated, moved in together for a few months and I learned a lot from her as well... she told me that her first impression of me was that I was a douche and was probably real conceited, I probably thought very highly if myself and I was used to getting any woman I wanted...
Later she told me that she had intentions of dumping me to bring me down a notch; maybe pretend she was going to fuck me, but then not follow through; but at the same time she was wanted to fuck my brains out...
She also told me that she had broken up with a serious boyfriend who was an asshole and a couple of reasons she wanted to date me was 1. To piss him off. 2. To show her friends that she 'upgraded' 3. To show off to other girls...
On the other hand; at the same time she hated me and everything I stood for... in either event the sex was awesome, she was also bisexual, so we fucked a lot of hot girls together; but she was also nuts, fucking nuts... (she jumped out of a 2nd story window because she tbought i was going to cheat on her with a girl from the gym, i nean wtf!?!, guess she didn't want to be left out)
Finally after we broke up. I dated a very average dark skinned Mexican girl with an average body, all she did was ask about my ex, because all of her friends at the mall kept telling her how beautiful she was and how perfect her body was... (At the time, I lived in an apartment across the street from a mall)
But what I noticed is that after I dated this average girl; I had women lined up! Swear to God! I'd have girls coming to my door and knocking wanting to hang out, striking up conversations; girls I've never met, came to my apartment and knocked on my door and would walk right in! Sure this was in Mexico in 1997, but still applies, that year helped me figure out a lot about women...
Next time you see gorgeous women posting endless selfies on instagram, notice that she'll likely be with some average guy... Also notice how so many women love posting pictures of either their cars, jewelry, gifts; or their man's car, or house, etc... A lot of this shit is to outdo one another... Did I know I was being used? Sure, did I care? Maybe a little, but I got a lot of ass and that made me feel better about the whole situation...
The purpose of that book I just wrote?
I don't know; just my sme if my experiences use the information as applicable to guide you through your journey of life...
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