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I've been with my g/f for a bit over three years. She's fantastic... I've never gotten along better with anyone in my life, we've never even had an argument that I can think of. I absolutely love every second I spend with her, I've never not looked forward to being with her.
My only issue is that while she's not obese or anything, she's really pushing the weight limit.... I mean, she's overweight. And I feel like an ass for saying it but honestly, speaking to a group of guys here, you all know how it is.... I mean visual attraction does play some part. It's tough because her sisters and cousins are all smoking hot and in great shape and I feel bad but I can't help but check them out.
I've been with really hot women before, who unfortunately were just shallow, one-dimensional and boring. And to be honest, I'd much rather have what I have now than go back to what I had before, no contest.... but I'm a guy and I do have those cravings.
To cut to the chase.... I'm sticking with her, she's an amazing woman. I'm just wondering if there's any hope of me converting her to be more fit.... she's actually really attractive but she puts no effort, no matter how much I try she just likes to eat junk and wear baggy t-shirts etc.
The usual answer I get is to take her to the gym with me.... this is where I want a bodybuilders opinion b/c as some of you know, many of us don't actually spend much time in the gym. I'm a 3-day a week "Team Skip"/DC guy so that doesn't leave much.
Should I just let it rest? Have any of you been in this situation? I keep trying to make it about me, and having her weigh out my meals etc. so MAYBE she'll somehow just fall into the habit out of routine but I'm thinking it's a lost cause and maybe I should just let it be. Does it make me a bad person that I love her but I wish she would take more pride in her appearance?
My only issue is that while she's not obese or anything, she's really pushing the weight limit.... I mean, she's overweight. And I feel like an ass for saying it but honestly, speaking to a group of guys here, you all know how it is.... I mean visual attraction does play some part. It's tough because her sisters and cousins are all smoking hot and in great shape and I feel bad but I can't help but check them out.
I've been with really hot women before, who unfortunately were just shallow, one-dimensional and boring. And to be honest, I'd much rather have what I have now than go back to what I had before, no contest.... but I'm a guy and I do have those cravings.
To cut to the chase.... I'm sticking with her, she's an amazing woman. I'm just wondering if there's any hope of me converting her to be more fit.... she's actually really attractive but she puts no effort, no matter how much I try she just likes to eat junk and wear baggy t-shirts etc.
The usual answer I get is to take her to the gym with me.... this is where I want a bodybuilders opinion b/c as some of you know, many of us don't actually spend much time in the gym. I'm a 3-day a week "Team Skip"/DC guy so that doesn't leave much.
Should I just let it rest? Have any of you been in this situation? I keep trying to make it about me, and having her weigh out my meals etc. so MAYBE she'll somehow just fall into the habit out of routine but I'm thinking it's a lost cause and maybe I should just let it be. Does it make me a bad person that I love her but I wish she would take more pride in her appearance?