How Many Wives Disapprove!

[Big_O]

I'm 47 and have been using gear since 1980...Just to dispence with the newbie non-sense....

This will be my 3rd cycle with my new wife...Only been married since June 28th of last year....My first wife was 20 years and she stuck with me when I was using between 5-7 drol e/d...I was really grouchy..to say the least...

My wife is dead set against me using anything...She does have good reason's though......I was a little on the rough side ...

My question is how many guys hide the fact that there on gear and won't tell there wives anything at all...I tried to honest with my new wife but she thinks working out should be on the bike rather than lifting and getting bigger..She says I'm big enough....She goes by what she reads from the internet and not actual medical studies of actual reports form New England Journal of Medicine..etc...She has access to all the library thesis on every genetic experiment done....but will not condone me using gear at all...I hate to lie but she's forcing me into that corner...

 

[cryptasm]

My wife knows it all, I didn't give her any say in the matter...I just do it..she knows, and we never discussed it. IMO if a guy wants to use gear why does his wife or girlfriend have any say in it??
That being said I know of 3 peolpe that I am close with that hide it, and I know 2 others that wount use cause they are afraid of what the wife would say.
I say bullshit, WTF does a wife or girlfriend have to do with the fact hat you wanna use gear or not..especially if you are over 35 and keep your vigor and drive as you get older ..Its a decision thats up to the person thats using..
It amazes me how many guys let their wifes run teir lives..i don't mean that I don't respect my wife or her opinion buty as far as my gear use goes..what does she have to do with it???
I don't discuss what type of car I buy with my wife, or what I eat for lunch, or alot of other things..
Alot of the same people that woun't use because of their wies that I know turn around and Drink in exess on a regular basis, Smoke Pot, Drive under the influence, gamble...ect their wies know they do this, I can't belive they discuss these actions with the wife before they partake..so why would someone have to discuss using hormones to improve their confedence, health, body, and mind????
My wife has alot to say about alot of shit..belive me..but as far as my body and what I put in it..I never gave her the option of her input..I don't ask her if its ok for me to take a shit either!!!

 

[bigbadasian]

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|--[\\\]>------- Sometimes, well often, what they dont know wont hurt them.

 

[Tills]

She's your wife. If you value your marriage at all, there had better be ZERO secrets, on either side of the relationship.

 

[homonunculus]

My wife is dead set against me using anything...She does have good reason's though......I was a little on the rough side ...

This speaks volumes, Big O.

Imagine if your wife had liked to use alcohol or some other drug that for the most part seamed harmless, except that it made her violent to the point where you were actually concerned that she might hurt you.

For example, imagine if every now and again, she'd come home late at night on a binge and hit you in the head in your sleep with a frying pan 'cuz she got pissed you left the toilet seat down...

And then, of course, she's a bit groggy / hung over during the day and every now and again you get this sense that she's in the mood she was in when she slammed your head with the frying pan and you're like "Shit!" for a few minutes - literally scared she's gonna do something that could f*&k you up.

So you go through your day with that thought in the back of you head that as long as she's "using" that there's a remote chance that she could flip on you and you would have no way to defend yourself. (Yes, I know you could in most cases, but consider that she really could harm you at the drop of a hat - in her case with a weapon - just as you could do to her, just with your bare hands.)

Hope this gives you food for thought...

-Randy

 

[Maverick]

Here's a good reason why you dont say anything to your wife or girlfriend. If you guys break up then she runs to the cops. Nuff said!



Mav

 

[cryptasm]

Here's a good reason why you dont say anything to your wife or girlfriend. If you guys break up then she runs to the cops. Nuff said!



Mav

I agree there...if its not a long term or commited relasionship then I would keep my mouth shut..as its none of their business..just like its non of my neihbors business what I do in my house..but in a long term commited relasionship diff story..

 

[joedokes]

Mine does a lot of my research for me. Also does some of my site injections that I can't reach. I'm just lucky that way.

 

[Big_O]

O.K. with everything said maybe changing the gear instead of doing 1200 mg's test 900 eq and 600 deca...Perhaps something different..

Like eq winny tabs and fina instead of test....I know the test thing again..

Well perhaps sus in the 600-750 range with eq in the 500-600 with winny or something of that nature.....I'm looking for away that my attitude won't change....I'm also on celexa right now and for the most part I've chilled out quite a bit....or is this a different way around the houst that's on fire..?

 

[thebrick]

Hey big O, I am just bit older than you and in my second marriage also. My wife sounds a bit like yours. She does like the fact that I lift to stay in shapethough, but I also do the AM cardio thing these days because it has its good points too, especially at my age. She knows that I love lifting and that it is part of who I am. She knows about my past gear use and is cool about it. Although, if I "supplement" sometimes these days I am quiet about it. But if she found out, I would be honest about it. That's just me. I think she would be most upset about perceived health issues involved. At my age, I do stay away from the "harsh" stuff like Adrol and Dbol, etc. too.

 

[n4dmoney]

Yeah, I think most are just totally scared by the "unknown". They are uneducated about the juice and fear it will harm their significant other. My wife doesn't like it but she needs to deal with it and get over her fear and stop listening to these media hype idiots. The media in America has really made it tough for us.

 

[Big_O]

You know if I could go through the next cycle without even a trace of short tempered-ness...it would speak volumes of all this rhetoric about gear...

Hey Brick....what are you going with these days..?...I can't do either drol or d-bol...my last cycle i used B/D T-bol....It really did nothing for me...maybe a little harder...but I think the eq/deca did it's part in full also....

How many older guys do eq and tren's and d-bol/drol.....I'm talking let say over.. 40-45 some where in that range....?

 

[Crowler]

This speaks volumes, Big O.

Imagine if your wife had liked to use alcohol or some other drug that for the most part seamed harmless, except that it made her violent to the point where you were actually concerned that she might hurt you.

For example, imagine if every now and again, she'd come home late at night on a binge and hit you in the head in your sleep with a frying pan 'cuz she got pissed you left the toilet seat down...

And then, of course, she's a bit groggy / hung over during the day and every now and again you get this sense that she's in the mood she was in when she slammed your head with the frying pan and you're like "Shit!" for a few minutes - literally scared she's gonna do something that could f*&k you up.

So you go through your day with that thought in the back of you head that as long as she's "using" that there's a remote chance that she could flip on you and you would have no way to defend yourself. (Yes, I know you could in most cases, but consider that she really could harm you at the drop of a hat - in her case with a weapon - just as you could do to her, just with your bare hands.)

Hope this gives you food for thought...

-Randy

GREAT POST!


Also how did this not come up before you got married?

I am thinking that each story has 2 sides and even you side says you got a little rough, then you talk about anger and now you are hoping to switch to something different and not have anger so it will show she is wrong.

This is a bad situation. Wife doesn't like it and you get in a bad mood while you are on.


CROWLER

 

[Paul Bunyan]

Here's a novel idea......Drive your natural test levels into the shitter and go to a doc and get on HRT. She can't bitch about it if the doc prescribed it. Your insurance may even pay for it. I'd just forget about doing anymore monster cycles. Your attitude will stay on a more even keel and you will look and feel better.

PB

 

[Kaiser]

I'd say, stay away from the Drol at least. I have never used Drol, but from the friends I have, they were turned into the tazmanian devil once slightly provoked. I also think somehow you should let the wife know. Bullshit about going to the cops after, thats not going to do anything to you. She cant prove they are yours unless you admit it so throw that excuse out. From what you last cycle looked like brother, I would have definitely cut down. If I rememember right, you were eating 6-7 drol a day and your blood pressure was somewhere in the range of 210/120 right? Thats way to much in my book bro. Your body really needs to find itself again as far as levels goes otherwise your dosages are going to keep going up. We want you to live, not kill yourself, ya know brother? My suggestion would be allow your body to heal a little, use a little proviron if needed every now and then to get the libido going, cleanse your liver, and get some serious recoup time restore natural levels. Maybe HCG therapy is needed. Wait a few months, till you stabilize, stop looking in the mirror at the changes and have faith your body wont change that much. Once you do this you may be able to get good gains again off of 500test and 400 deca.

Good luck brother, and dont take this post the wrong way, we just dont want to lose you. Love that wife of yours, she's a good woman.

 

[Big_O]

No...No drol..My 1 st cycle during my honeymoon I was up to 3 e/d...The next cycle I changed it toT-bol....

I like Pau's idea....Iv'e been looking into HRT...Power Medica went down and another outfit wanted 2000.00 for a couple of bottles of cyp....I've been angling towards that idea.....

 

[Tough Old Man]

I'm the king of my house. I could care less if my wife likes it or not. The only thing I care about is she takes care of this horny old man everyday. She stops doing that and I'll find a young mexican chick to replace her ass. This is my house and I built it with my own two hands and with my own money. End of story.

Tough

 

[W8killa]

My Fiancee knows everything. At first I wasn't sure if I should tell her because I kept it away from everyone before her. I knew if the relationship was going to go further she needed to know. Shes in school to be a nurse so she's educated and knows that I am not an idiot so she respects my choices. She also knows there are way worse things than juice such as hard drugs, obesity, etc.
She monitors my blood pressure, and even injects me when I ask. Overall she is very supportive of what I do.
I have never had a temper problem so that helps keep her cool.

 

[MikeS]

Sticky subject. I will always tell my gf/wife. It just seems if you are very involved-its just too much to hide it all. Then the shit really hits the fan when she finds out, if you lied all along. As Mav points out, she can be cool if you tell her-but later in the relationship things go bad and she could freak and call the cops. So keep all stuff off site and she has no right to know about that. Youre taking a chance either way. My wife was real cool at first, gave me shots, helped me count tabs...she went nutty years later and once did call the cops. He didnt give a crap as she was obviously freaking out and it was just a domestic call - she wanted me out, the cops have seen a zillion women all crazy starting shit over nothing. The house was clean anyway.
The wife (seperated now) is still pretty cool about juice and thinks it should be legal, but she is unpredictable in a crisis like many women. My new girl gives me shots too, and seems alot more level headed than my wife. I hope...

 

[jawbreakerkid]

what's more important, your relationship with your wife or being a little bigger by training with gear as opposed to without? I can't believe someone would compromise a relationship for a few lbs of muscle.