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So close to kicking a co-workers ass last night

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I'm a simple guy, I just like to go to work and do my job and come home. Aside from spending time with my family and doing things around the house the only extra curricular time I get for myself is the gym a few times/wk. I dont know why people try and fuck with that, or rag on guys like me. I just get transferred to a new place at work, and there is this punk kid who I've never liked from day 1. Reason why? Because all I've ever done was try and be cool with the kid and from day one I have not gotten 1 ounce of respect. It's perfectly evident he has an inferiority complex and now it's even worse, because I got promoted and I'm over him and he cannot stand it. He could have gotten promoted, but he didnt want to or either didn't have the initiative. So it's killing this guy to have me there because he's been there longer but I'm over him. His anger and jealousy shined through very clear. Last night it erupted, I was about a nats ass away from knocking this dude out. I told myself it just wasnt worth losing my job and walked away to calm down. This punk thinks he's tough shit because he just got into all this strongman stuff. But aside from all of that shit, I bet if I was a golfer or I was your average 180 lb guy I would never have had a problem with him. I've come to a conclusion about punks like this. They do this stuff at work because they know you wont do anything that would justify losing your job, but they'd never even think of giving you shit outside of there. He wants to be the big man on campus and obviously I've invaded his pissing grounds. Fuck guys like this. But then when we start standing up for ourselves and quit taking their shit, all of a sudden we are the bad guys right? The steroid assholes, the troublemakers, the psychos. Society is fucked up, I now understand why most bodybuilders stay away from everyday, normal life. I'm becoming one
 
I'm in a similar situation where I work. You might want to check if you have the authority now to send him elsewhere or have him written up. I have a meeting on Monday with the prick I have to deal with and the head of operations. This kid started working here and was given tips on how to behave that would get anyone fired on the spot at any better company. I will give him an earful not for his sake but for mine.
 
So what did exactly this kid do this time to piss you off, ATW? You say he "erupted" without more precisions! Did he throw some insults or tried to be mean in a way or another???
 
Yeah, like someone said, write him up if he's out of line like it sounds like he was, and is slowing production. Outside of work, the high road Bro, twits like this don't even deserve a response.
 
i feel wheree you're coming from ATW.just keep it in your mind that this little kid just ain't worth losing your job over,esp in todays economy.have you tried pulling him aside,just you n him one on one,and laying the cards out on the table?that might work.it'll sure be better than you bashing his face in and possibly losing your job,legal issues,etc.i just started working again and one of the guys i work with is usually in charge when the boss isn't around so i do whatever needs to be done.now mind you,i'm 41 and he's only like 26-27 and acts like a spoiled brat.he definitely has an authority/inferiority complex and takes my happy-go-lucky attitude as a sign of weakness.well the other day i HAD to put him in his place.after a day long of ass-busting work and him constantly barking orders at me i waited until no one was around and pulled him to the side.i calmly told him "don't take my kindness for weakness,please.i can be your best friend,hardest worker,etc.. but now you're starting to cross the line with me.i have no problem taking orders from anyone,younger or older as long as it's done respectfully.if you wanna see my "other side" then keep on pushing the envelope so to speak."it would be a shame to be working one day and before you know it you're waking up in the hospital b/c someone smashed the back of your skull in with a shovel,by accident of course,and have to learn how to eat and talk all over again."i am by no means a tough guy but like alot of people when pushed to the limit i kinda black-out.after that little chat he's changed his attitude completely.:rolleyes:
 
I think i know what its like when someone just gets on your nerves the way you describe. But... walking away does not end the problem bro, either talk to him, report him, or beat him (not adviced) but putting an end to the problem is the only solution worth while.
 
YOU SAID IT ATW

I'm a simple guy, I just like to go to work and do my job and come home. Aside from spending time with my family and doing things around the house the only extra curricular time I get for myself is the gym a few times/wk. I dont know why people try and fuck with that, or rag on guys like me. I just get transferred to a new place at work, and there is this punk kid who I've never liked from day 1. Reason why? Because all I've ever done was try and be cool with the kid and from day one I have not gotten 1 ounce of respect. It's perfectly evident he has an inferiority complex and now it's even worse, because I got promoted and I'm over him and he cannot stand it. He could have gotten promoted, but he didnt want to or either didn't have the initiative. So it's killing this guy to have me there because he's been there longer but I'm over him. His anger and jealousy shined through very clear. Last night it erupted, I was about a nats ass away from knocking this dude out. I told myself it just wasnt worth losing my job and walked away to calm down. This punk thinks he's tough shit because he just got into all this strongman stuff. But aside from all of that shit, I bet if I was a golfer or I was your average 180 lb guy I would never have had a problem with him. I've come to a conclusion about punks like this. They do this stuff at work because they know you wont do anything that would justify losing your job, but they'd never even think of giving you shit outside of there. He wants to be the big man on campus and obviously I've invaded his pissing grounds. Fuck guys like this. But then when we start standing up for ourselves and quit taking their shit, all of a sudden we are the bad guys right? The steroid assholes, the troublemakers, the psychos. Society is fucked up, I now understand why most bodybuilders stay away from everyday, normal life. I'm becoming one

I can TOTALLY relate to the last 4 sentences, because I am already there.
 
So what did exactly this kid do this time to piss you off, ATW? You say he "erupted" without more precisions! Did he throw some insults or tried to be mean in a way or another???

Yea man what happened? ...hey I hate my job to..wanna whip EVERYBODYS ass all the time lol:D ..takes alot of restraint but gotta make money so I gotta do alot of shit i dont want to ya know
 
Yea man what happened? ...hey I hate my job to..wanna whip EVERYBODYS ass all the time lol:D ..takes alot of restraint but gotta make money so I gotta do alot of shit i dont want to ya know

Well here is the basic rundown of what happened. I recently get promoted at my job so I'm now driving the truck instead of riding the back (I work at a fire dept.) When I became promoted I was transferred away from my old station. I loved my old station, the guys were awesome. Those guys eventually started hitting the weights, and packing their own food. We were all really tight, we smoked cigars together, worked out, whatever. So then I floated for awhile and they used me wherever they needed to fill a slot. Then they stick me at another company. Now, I've floated to this company and filled in before several times, and this fucker has been a thorn in my side from the beginning. Here is a breakdown of my day, leading up to me almost ripping his head off.

1- walk into the station, nobody speaks

2- put my shit on the rig, go inside and cook my breakfast

3- get harassed by the fuckface for eating before them, I told him I dont eat bicuits and bacon for breakfast and it was nothing personal. I just wanted to eat so I could go check the truck out

4- The entire day, almost EVERY CALL, I had to listen to his shit about not knowing the territory and having to look it up in a mapbook. Keep in mind, I'm hauling ass 70 mph through downtown running lights and sirens and having to hear this fuck over my headset at the same time. It started pissing me off, and you would have thought he would have gotten the picture when I stopped responding to him. I'll be honest, as a new driver I'm fucking nervous. I'm driving a 3/4 million dollar truck (often into on coming traffic) and if I hit somebody we are not talking wounding them, that is it for them, they are dead. I dont feel its the time or place for somebody to be talking shit, ESPECIALLY some fuck who rides the back!! This guy hasn't done shit with his career. He doesn't have to, his house was given to him, Grandpa bought him a new Chevy Truck, and a 30k chopper to boot. He's an only child, rich kid prick. Meanwhile I'm busting my ass working O/T to try and make ends meet and I have a kid on the way in about 3 wks.

5- Later that day, I start to calm down. I'm thinking of pulling him off to the side and talking to him, but I know with a guy like this its not going to do any good. Well I brought in a movie to watch, they start watching the movie, I asked another guy a question and this dork started getting so annoyed I had talked for 2 seconds during the movie. I started reading his body language and he kept moving around and moving his feet, obviously an impatient, annoyed manner because I was sitting down in the room with them. Whatever

6- Call comes in around 11pm, we get cancelled on the way there. The other guy riding the Captains seat yells like he's annoyed I missed a turn to go back to the station(I was planning on going back a diff. way). At this point all bets are off. I respond back "speak up like you actually have a pair of nuts and maybe I'd hear ya" He starts talking about "we are gonna have a little class about where to turn around" this angers me more, because NOW, the guy in the front is treating me like shit so the guys on the back are going to follow suit. Fuck, why wouldn't they? I have not been treated like this ANYWHERE ELSE besides here, most people are glad to have me. I felt as if I had not gotten an ounce of respect from the get go. I have a guy I outrank talking to me like I'm some dumb fuck probie. The anger continues to build. Oh yeah, I also over hear them joking about fucking with the stove so I cant cook my food, "yeah, he'd be soooo pissed, lets do it"

THE MELTDOWN - I begin to poke back at fuckface, told him his knee high socks and sandals made him look like more of a bitch than he already was. He looked like a waitress who should be serving me beer at the bar downtown. He does not joke back, at this point he gets real. (like all guys who dish it out and cant take it) he starts running his mouth about how I'm the gay one because I shave my arms and legs. I told him "yeah, your right, because I have muscles you can actually see" then he starts his whole "step into my world, lift some logs and tires, and pull a truck (they pull a full size Dodge truck, really fucking hard huh? sheesh) started going on about how bodybuilders were all cocky pricks and pretty boys. He says he weighs 40 lbs less than me and he would lift just as much. I said "40 lbs!! really? Is that all? Then I told him to put his fucking money where his mouth was and lets go out to the weight room at work and do the shit right now, I was gonna bury his ass. And then I told him he reminded me of one of those little Chihuahua dogs that wont ever stop barking, then all you gotta do is kick the fucker one good time and he'll never do it again. He then says "then jump then, do something then" I told him I wasn't jeopardizing my job for his sorry ass, but I'd be more than happy beat his ass the next morning when we got off shift. I told him if he wanted some then follow me tomm morning after work to this field nearby and I was gonna fuck him up.

7- Next morning arrives, the guy is GONE. I mean before I can even come downstairs he has left, hahaha. Geez, I thought he was a hardass? What happened? I was looking forward to our little brawl.

I then decided to contact the Chief and have him move me, I told him I cannot work out there with him, the guy and me are like oil and water. So I'm getting moved. I've calmed down alot about the whole situation, but God Damn do some people need a reality check. And like some other guy said above, I think he was taking my kindness for a weakness. You know when you were a kid and your mom told you "just ignore them and they'll leave you alone" well when your grown you eventually start to realize that's bullshit. It never goes away until you make it go away. Sorry for the long post, but you guys wanted details, there ya have it
 
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Glad you got moved at least to get away from him. I know what you mean, see jealous pricks like him at work all the time.
 
just to play the devil's advocate here.....it didn't sound like just one guy had an issue with you at this station? maybe you came across wrong to the group instead of only this one guy?
 
Well, sounds like he already won the fight, He is controlling your emotions. He figures he can screw with you any time, because you can't hide your emotions. When you learn to control your emotions, you won't have those problems. Learn to be humble and you will avoid conflicts.
 
man the guy is clearly a little bitch that wants attention and is jelous of you. Fuck him, if he wants a fight fight him, but he clearly doesnt, so move and that should solve the problem.
 
I've had this problem before, too... go to a new job, everything seems cool for the first couple days, then bam, you hit the wall of asshole. I remember once where I kept getting shit from this punk ass (younger than me) and I eventually snapped and pushed his ass down some stairs. I threatened to kick another guys ass, too. On top of that, I punked another guy in front of some customers. I didn't work there long, I'll put it that way. I was younger, then, though. Now, I'd probably just outwork them and make them look stupid in front of other people and be done with it. That usually works better than starting shit. Make friends with their friends, kiss up to the boss, talk to pretty girls in front of him, etc etc. It's a mindgame, bro. Some people are really group-oriented and it sounds like you found a nice group of bitches where you work. If I were you I'd fight like a girl... snub him, be passive aggressive, and treat him like shit. Seems to work for me, these days.
 
Well, sounds like he already won the fight, He is controlling your emotions. He figures he can screw with you any time, because you can't hide your emotions. When you learn to control your emotions, you won't have those problems. Learn to be humble and you will avoid conflicts.

x2.

Usually when people are giving me a hard time, I have a hard time NOT smiling, and I say, "okay, thanks" and go back to what I am doing without even thinking about what they just said for any longer than two seconds. They'll know in their heads that you know you are above them without even having to explain it. This type of behavior makes people like that go insane.
 
Guys I work with call me Lou (Ferigno Sp?) in kind of a wise ass was because they know I compete. They also fuck with me about my diet all the time. It used to bother me but I really don't care anymore. They are a bunch of fat, middle aged community legue sofball players; living that vapid, boring ass middle aged life; accepting the fact that they can only now reflect back to a time when they had something going for them athletically and appearance wise. I may be middle aged too but I'm not ready to play the role yet.

I don't even spend too much time talking to them asside from just being cordial because their attitudes and outlooks on life I find very deflating. I would rather spend my time talking to women and lining up lunch/dinner dates. Like Arnold always said, "if you have it, show (use) it"!!!

Dude, I'm convinced that people are jealous and uncomfortable with people who compete in this sport. That is my conclusion.

Don't give the prick the satisfaction of getting under your skin.
 
YES

Guys I work with call me Lou (Ferigno Sp?) in kind of a wise ass was because they know I compete. They also fuck with me about my diet all the time. It used to bother me but I really don't care anymore. They are a bunch of fat, middle aged community legue sofball players; living that vapid, boring ass middle aged life; accepting the fact that they can only now reflect back to a time when they had something going for them athletically and appearance wise. I may be middle aged too but I'm not ready to play the role yet.

I don't even spend too much time talking to them asside from just being cordial because their attitudes and outlooks on life I find very deflating. I would rather spend my time talking to women and lining up lunch/dinner dates. Like Arnold always said, "if you have it, show (use) it"!!!

Dude, I'm convinced that people are jealous and uncomfortable with people who compete in this sport. That is my conclusion.

Don't give the prick the satisfaction of getting under your skin.

I can totally relate to this as well. I used to date women ten years(sometimes more) younger than me regularly, my GF now is about 8 years younger,...... do average , overweight, balding, mid-life guys get women who are younger and hot?...Not usually unless they have a large bank account.
 
Nobody should be put in a situation where you have no recourse. Aside from that, I would have found him off the job and done what I had to do or would have fucked with him so hard that I provoked him into hitting me first. Hope it gets resolved without have to go to these extremes.
 
I can totally relate to this as well. I used to date women ten years(sometimes more) younger than me regularly, my GF now is about 8 years younger,...... do average , overweight, balding, mid-life guys get women who are younger and hot?...Not usually unless they have a large bank account.

AMEN TO THAT BRO!!!

LOL- I'm 40 and have one girl who wants to go out that is 20!

I used to get drunk all the time until I discovered what being high on life is all about!!!

So, fuck those fat miserable bastards!!
 

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