Telling a woman to loose 20 pounds is not what they call support.Well she wont tell me or step on a scale for me and she gets very defensive and idk why she does w me, I love her. I said start with a 20lb weight loss goal and she started crying. Shes an emotional one
Well, im betting she weighs less than you think because fat is less dense than muscle and so she looks like she weighs more than she does. She's really pretty. My ex was big at about 230 lbs and I married her. I'm with you on not being too tied up with how someone looks. My ex had an affair on me though. I think her weight gave her low self esteem and she was looking for attention from men.She is tall and has a lot of muscle. I pro,ise you she is close to 300. Im 240ish and she is bigger than me. Im not trolling. She has gained more recently that was when she was maybe 265-275
Why take down your profile picture with her in it? She looked great in that. No need to hide it.I was settling with women that were total ruthless cunts bc how hot they were. I like em thick. She has just gained some weight recently and I am in love with her and will not leave her. Im gonna be with her and help her thru this to get back to what she was.
I would never cheat on her. We have good sex. She has tons of muscle too. IDK how still but she did lift with me for a while and the chick is strong. This isnt that situation. I left a certifiable 10 tattoo artist named Lindsay for this girl.
Im posting this bc I love her with all of my heart and her family and am concerned about her recent weight gain and Im being told Im trolling. This is the woman Im gonna marry. She wont be this way forever bc if she has to have a surgery she will, but thats last resort. Her dad and sister had it and the dad is big but much smaller now and the sister is now normal sized Id say and has more confidence. My girl Katrina only recently has lost her confidence some but she wasnt she ashamed fat girl her sister was.
Ive dated some mega hotties and many were good, but there wont be her getting bigger and bigger bc I love her and want to keep her around and help her get healthier.
She has been there for me at rock bottom, when I was doing bad in life and stood by me bc thats love and I will always do the same for her. If you saw her you wouldnt say "damn thats a giant ass ugly bitch" bc she wears it well, but recently stress and bad eating and not working out has gotten her much bigger. Quarantine got us both bigger, and I work out so I lost most of it already and added more muscle.
But no I am not trolling. Thats what she looks like, and thats what she weighs. And Im certainly not gonna leave the woman Im gonna marry bc she has gained some weight. Im not that superficial. I want her healthy. I want her confidence back, and Im going to do whatever it takes to help her get there.
My whole life has gotten better since Ive been with her. She has made me a better man, urged me to improve my credit, helped me when I would switch jobs. We have our money, not mine or hers.
I am far from settling with this one. She is having some issues right now and doesnt look the way she did 2 years agi but Im not gonna jump ship bc she gained some weight. Ive seen her lose it quickly I need her at the gym w me again and us eating healthy like we were before.
I wouldnt post this as a troll or ask if I didnt love her and want real advice. I like my women ticker and she wants to get back to what she was. I take her to the doc in 5 hours so Im off to bed
Yeah, I ran into that. The psychology here is really tough. I did help my ex lose 60 lbs, but the whole time I think I was building a wall between us. Then she put it all back on fast.. Part of her I think was saying that I should accept and love her the way she was, the way God made her. I think its partly to blame for the affair she had and our divorce.Telling a woman to loose 20 pounds is not what they call support.
Been down that road a couple times. The power struggle is tough. And being accused of judging them every time they eat something not on their diet was not worth it.Yeah, I ran into that. The psychology here is really tough. I did help my ex lose 60 lbs, but the whole time I think I was building a wall between us. Then she put it all back on fast.. Part of her I think was saying that I should accept and love her the way she was, the way God made her. I think its partly to blame for the affair she had and our divorce.
You better believe it. Like I said, I think its probably THE major factor for our divorce. If she felt like I accepted her the way she was then she probably wouldn't have cheated on me.Been down that road a couple times. The power struggle is tough. And being accused of judging them every time they eat something not on their diet was not worth it.
You better believe it. Like I said, I think its probably THE major factor for our divorce. If she felt like I accepted her the way she was then she probably wouldn't have cheated on me.
The lady has to really want to lose weight on her own.
Good point. Maybe a personal trainer and diet guide would help, and the boyfriend tries to stay out of it. Sucks to have to pay for something you can do on your own, but if it works and avoids conflict then it's worth it.I would never diet down my own wife.
First of all, its unfair to her because its almost guaranteed she doesn't want it THAT BAD. Obviously, she's big and hasn't made the mental switch that she's had enough. Plus, like buck mentioned, the shit you would remind your client you CANNOT remind your wife. Because you'll be seeing shit all day everyday. I can make a comment to my clients like, "Hey, be strong this weekend when you are watching football with the boys." And dudes get it. The average significant other would take offense to that and hold some resentment. You're basically fucked on that level.