this has to be so wrong....

[kidstuff]

ok, well i don't normally ask for personal advice from strangers on a bodybuilding board but....... I can't talk about this to my family and close friends.

my older bro recently got engaged, so the family of his fiance held an engagement party last saturday which i attended. Now.... I was soon introduced to by bro's fiance's younger sister. And as soon as I saw her I got this really weird butterfly feeling in my stomach which i haven't felt since i had a crush on a student teacher in high school. anyway her sister was so cute, totally my type, and we started talking and joking about soon being family and what we were both doing, yada yada. and the more we talked the more I was attracted to her.

and although we had good chemistry, and i think she felt it too, I can't act on it. because I would look like a pervert degenerate for hitting my brother's soon to be wife's sister.

this was about a week ago and I thought If i let time pass I would realize that my attraction was just irrational and it would pass, but it hasen't.

uh......

 

[Crowler]

ok, well i don't normally ask for personal advice from strangers on a bodybuilding board but....... I can't talk about this to my family and close friends.

my older bro recently got engaged, so the family of his fiance held an engagement party last saturday which i attended. Now.... I was soon introduced to by bro's fiance's younger sister. And as soon as I saw her I got this really weird butterfly feeling in my stomach which i haven't felt since i had a crush on a student teacher in high school. anyway her sister was so cute, totally my type, and we started talking and joking about soon being family and what we were both doing, yada yada. and the more we talked the more I was attracted to her.

and although we had good chemistry, and i think she felt it too, I can't act on it. because I would look like a pervert degenerate for hitting my brother's soon to be wife's sister.

this was about a week ago and I thought If i let time pass I would realize that my attraction was just irrational and it would pass, but it hasen't.

uh......

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Hunh?



CROWLER

 

[maxsupplements]

dude...

you are NOT blood related to her...


there is nothing wrong with this... just tell your brother.. nothing wrong with that.. infact, if it worked out, you would be on big happy family...

seriously...

well, i konw what i would do.....

GO FOR IT.. but in a calm classy way, make sure your bro approves first...

tell him you NEED this to stay confidential.

 

[littlemack]

ok, well i don't normally ask for personal advice from strangers on a bodybuilding board but....... I can't talk about this to my family and close friends.

my older bro recently got engaged, so the family of his fiance held an engagement party last saturday which i attended. Now.... I was soon introduced to by bro's fiance's younger sister. And as soon as I saw her I got this really weird butterfly feeling in my stomach which i haven't felt since i had a crush on a student teacher in high school. anyway her sister was so cute, totally my type, and we started talking and joking about soon being family and what we were both doing, yada yada. and the more we talked the more I was attracted to her.

and although we had good chemistry, and i think she felt it too, I can't act on it. because I would look like a pervert degenerate for hitting my brother's soon to be wife's sister.

this was about a week ago and I thought If i let time pass I would realize that my attraction was just irrational and it would pass, but it hasen't.

uh......

Nothing wrong with this at all! My dad was just telling me about some friends of my grandads who were married (two sets of brothers and two sets of sisters). Just like this. It happens, and people don't look down on this at all I don't think. In fact, they probably will be delighted and astonished if you make it that far!

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

kidstuff, when you said "I can't talk about this to my family" are you reffering to your spouse? Are you single? If you are single then I would say it's cool, however how old are you and how old is she? If there is no real age difference then it was just chance(your brother) that brought you two together. And you can't be blamed for you and her being single!


!

 

[kidstuff]

i'm single and 23 years old. the sister is 22 i believe.

apparently you think that me asking out my brother's fiance's sister is okay. hmm..... I don't know I just thought there was something not kosher about the whole thing.

her family is pretty conservative and i don't know how they would take it.

 

[littlemack]

i'm single and 23 years old. the sister is 22 i believe.

apparently you think that me asking out my brother's fiance's sister is okay. hmm..... I don't know I just thought there was something not kosher about the whole thing.

her family is pretty conservative and i don't know how they would take it.

My family is also pretty conservative, and I can tell you that it would be an acceptable thing to do in this day and age. Or any day and age for that matter! hahaha

 

[OuchThatHurts]

Happens all the time. Don't worry about it. Trust me, she'll let you know if it's kosher or not because she knows her family. Why wouldn't two brothers of similiar genes be attracted to the same type of girls, sisters, also with similiar genes. I'm actually surprised it doesn't happen more often than it does.

Just make sure that your families are compatible too because two brothers married to two sisters of the same family? Those families are going to be seeing quite a lot of each other.

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

i'm single and 23 years old. the sister is 22 i believe.

apparently you think that me asking out my brother's fiance's sister is okay. hmm..... I don't know I just thought there was something not kosher about the whole thing.

her family is pretty conservative and i don't know how they would take it.

your both single? COOL! go for it bro! bs around a little on movies, favorite bars, resturants, that sort of stuff. When she says "damn I want to go see that movie so bad" WHAM your in, ask if she'd like to go with you. If she starts to hem and haul a little like , "uuuuh i dont knoooow" then you know she aint feeling it to much, if she says yes, then just make sure you name your first kid BOOMSHAKER.

 

[Crowler]

i'm single and 23 years old. the sister is 22 i believe.

apparently you think that me asking out my brother's fiance's sister is okay. hmm..... I don't know I just thought there was something not kosher about the whole thing.

her family is pretty conservative and i don't know how they would take it.

lol

From your first post I figured you were like 50 and she was like 12.

Not seeing where there is any problem unless you plan on mistreating her.

BTW who cares what her family thinks she is 22 and you are 23 my gosh you were adults, able to make your own decision years ago.

CROWLER

 

[kidstuff]

well i'll take her out when her family comes down to visit from new york. show her around philly a bit, all under the radar and see how that goes, if there is a vibe well then we'll see where it goes.

the only thing is, if we do have a relationship and it goes sour, its gonna be kinda awkward still being brother and sister in law and that we're going to be seeing eathother quite often.

oh well, maybe we could really hit it off and do a 2-fer-one wedding in june.

 

[maxsupplements]

Why wouldn't two brothers of similiar genes be attracted to the same type of girls, sisters, also with similiar genes. I'm actually surprised it doesn't happen more often than it does.
QUOTE]

J, man, well, honestly, my bro and me have a hard time going out together becuase we both like the SAME WOMEN.. the same type that is... so, it makes it hard when one of us likes a chick.. but not hard for me, cause i am the aggresive one.. he would rather sit back and CHILL... i am WANTING TO HOOK UP!!!! HAHAHAHA


dude, just do it.. it will be worth it...

 

[JustWannaBeHuge]

dude, it's all good, i say go for it, but then again, my father's family is from WV, so that should tell you something about my opinion. jk

Good luck with it

 

[flexmaster]

kidstuff

liek everyone else said, no problem there bro! my grandparents did the same thing. nothing weird about it at all...go for it.

edit: well, after thinking about this for a second...this is a family that you will probably be seeing fairly often, and if she was to say no, or be weirded out by it it might look very bad on you. so if i were you, be careful about how you go about this. maybe talk to your mom if you're close to her. i know i would talk to mine if i were in your situation...

 

[vitor]

Many a times I have or my brother has fucked the sister of the girls we were dating. Its not weird, talk to ur bro get the A OK, and go for it. That would be a great fun double date

 

[kidstuff]

edit: well, after thinking about this for a second...this is a family that you will probably be seeing fairly often, and if she was to say no, or be weirded out by it it might look very bad on you. so if i were you, be careful about how you go about this. maybe talk to your mom if you're close to her. i know i would talk to mine if i were in your situation...

well said, thats the biggest concern. this has to be played very delicatly.

 

[Kahn]

Oh bullshit, ask the girl out and see how it goes. Treat her with respect like I hope you usually do and let things take shape. If she says no, then someone said no thanks and thats that. Don't even try to get wierded out, If she does, just tell her, hey, our families get along great and I like you. If there is nothing there, then no bigee. If there is, we want tape.

 

[maxsupplements]

Oh bullshit, ask the girl out and see how it goes. Treat her with respect like I hope you usually do and let things take shape. If she says no, then someone said no thanks and thats that. Don't even try to get wierded out, If she does, just tell her, hey, our families get along great and I like you. If there is nothing there, then no bigee. If there is, we want tape.

huh??

well, i dont think i would approach like this..

you have got to treat this with delicacy..

let us know how it goes.. dont come on too forward like this fella is saying..

 

[JETHRO TULL]

I GUESS I AM WONDERING JUST WHAT THE BIG DEAL IS??

I DON'T UNDERSTAND YOUR THINKING AT ALL....WHY SHOULD EVERYTHING BE DONE IN SUCH A 'DELICATE MANNER'?

WHY NOT JUST BE OPEN ABOUT IT....WOW, YOUR SISTER AND I REALLY HIT IT OFF! I'D BE INTERESTED IN SEEIN MORE OF HER!

AS LONG AS YOU ARE A NICE GUY AND ARE HONEST...WHO CAN FAULT YOU?

 

[oldfella]

Hey man, just listen to everyone else here. It's OK! now if you'd come on here saying that bout your brothers fiance then you have problems, but this is not the case. If your single and she's single as all have said there are no blood ties, then what are you waiting for, an invitation! If your waitng for that then the oppurtunity will pass you by and you will be kicking yourself later. I agree tell your brother, talk it over with him and let him know how you feel. Your bro can help you in this situation. He is closer to his fiance's sister than you are right now, so he may be able to talk to his finace and she will talk to her sister, see what I'm getting at. If you both feel the samre way about each other, there is a common attraction, start by getting to know her a bit better, maybe you, your bro, his fiance and you can go out and do something different and fun. It's a great start. Go for it if it's what you want.