You obviously misunderstood my post. I should have explained things better. Understand that my wife’s sex drive is up because I encouraged her to find the proper combination of hormones for her body type so she could keep up with me after I started taking anabolic hormones 26 years ago. She’s very glad she took my advice! For the past 25 years our sex life has been amazing. We wouldn’t change a thing. Now that she’s found her libido sweet spot, I have to maintain myself sexually if I want to remain on an even kill with her. Simply stated, I can’t be running drugs like deca and dbol that gives me a limp dick. What fun is that?
We have a great marriage. Been married for 32 years and have one kid. He’s awesome! Neither of us have ever been married before and we are both faithful. We lift weights together 4 days per week, and have the same interests in sex, nutrition, religion, politics, movies, music, etc,. There’s a whole lot more to our relationship than sex. I’m very blessed, not cursed. She puts zero pressure on me to have sex and vise versa. I wouldn’t change a thing about our marriage and she says she wouldn’t either. Our friends and family thinks it’s healthy how often we have sex. As a sex therapist, I agree with them. Many married people aren’t happy with their spouses because they have a subpar sex life. That’s what I define as TOXIC! A medicocre sex life often leads to affairs—which leads to divorce. Obesity and no longer being sexually attracted to a person also plays a large role in causing divorce. Being a sex therapist is a stressful job. It’s not as glamourist as most think. I run into both men and women who refuse to get on TRT to save their marriage in fear it will harm their health. But these same people will drink beer, smoke cigarettes, take various harmful medications, and allow themselves to remain obese by eating junk food. It frustrates me to no end. I’ve helped saved a lot of marriages. But there’s also a lot of marriages I have been unable to save because they won’t follow my advice. They are like people who join the gym and hire a personal training but don’t get results because they don’t follow the instructions their trainer gives them.