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Hey guys and gals, this forum has been such a blessing to me over the last two months that I'm just going to go ahead and make this post, even though to be totally honest, I'm really embarrased about the whole thing.
My wife and I have been together for 7 years, married for 5. We have 3 beautiful children, and what I thought was a wonderful relationship. on April 25th, I found out that my wife was cheating on me with someone she met while drinking with her friend. After the initial shock and anger, I decided that I would stay and make it work.
Last week I found out that at the same time this other relationship was going on, she was cheating on me with another guy. I told her that I couldn't forget this, and that I couln't move on together, and that I was leaving with the kids. Needless to say, she told me that she couldn't lose me, and that the kids would be destroyed, and convinced me not to leave. Every day since then I question what I'm going to do, and why I'm doing what I'm doing. I just wanted to get some of your perspectives on this situation. thanks.
My wife and I have been together for 7 years, married for 5. We have 3 beautiful children, and what I thought was a wonderful relationship. on April 25th, I found out that my wife was cheating on me with someone she met while drinking with her friend. After the initial shock and anger, I decided that I would stay and make it work.
Last week I found out that at the same time this other relationship was going on, she was cheating on me with another guy. I told her that I couldn't forget this, and that I couln't move on together, and that I was leaving with the kids. Needless to say, she told me that she couldn't lose me, and that the kids would be destroyed, and convinced me not to leave. Every day since then I question what I'm going to do, and why I'm doing what I'm doing. I just wanted to get some of your perspectives on this situation. thanks.