WTF...Pissed at gf and her friends.

[Stang]

OK, went out last night with my gf to a local bar. One of her friends is moving out of town and they wanted to throw her a little moving party. We get to the bar right on time and we're the only ones from the party there. I order my gf a drink and I get myself an ultra.

So, 30 minutes goes(It's 8:00pm) by and people start showing up, they are all women. about 60 minutes later everyone starts busting my balls because I'm not drinking.(By the way...there all drinking mixed drinks and doing lemon drops) I tell them that I had a beer earlier, I have to drive, and I gotta hit the gym early. So it keeps going on and on through out the night and I'm trying to keep my cool and just keep my mouth shut.

Now...my gf starts in on my shit. Telling me I need to lighten up and I don't lover her and fuckin blah,blah,blah. It's about midnight now and I'm really ready to tell them all to fuck off because there still bustin my balls about not drinking.

Ok...so...finally I say! You want to have some fun? Come on lets do some shots! I go too the bartender(who I've know for about 12 years) I said," give be 16 shots(2 shots each) of your worst tequila, only put some ginger ale or some shit in mine". Longer story short all these bitches start getting sick and I don't even fuckin care. My gf is on the throne as I type this. Am I a fucking dick? I don't care. Plus I slept like shit cause I was out late and she was up pukein' half the night. Fuck it...I'm going to the gym and I'll probably have a shitty work out now!

If you can't join em' ...fuck with em' !!! :de:il-smi

 

[thebrick]

Actually, I think that was pure genius!

 

[Michael2]

LOL-- BEAUTIFUL MAN--

Hope you get the workout you wanted!

 

[JETHRO TULL]

Soon, you won't even want to play that game anymore.

You'll get bored with it. I don't even go to bars anymore. Plus, that crap about, "you don't love me" is manipulative as hell. I had one tell me that while I was student teaching. I was nervous as hell everyday, grading papers every night, coaching football, and trying to lift as well. I was pressed for time and I'd get that shit, "You don't love me or you'd come see me"....uh, hello I am trying to make sure we have a future!?

Needless to say, I ended that relationship.

You could have said the same thing, "you don't really love me". She knows how important training and rest are to you and yet she pushes you to stay out late drinking in a stupid bar? Hell, you met her half way and were willing to go out for a little while! lol.

You handled it well. Pretty darn smart. For me, that whole scene isn't worth it though. I worked in bars and there isn't much good in any of it.

 

[NWMUSCLE]

Yes you are a dick, but that still is funny as hell !

 

[MAINEVENT]

Actually, I think that was pure genius!

I agree.

 

[Armageddon]

There lucky that's all they got. Come on, I've gone through that shit a few times with the present GF. The only reason were probably still together is cause we live together and I set her down and told her to shut it. I bet your girl had a nice little buzz going when she said that shit huh? Drunken mouths speak the sober truths!!! I told mine I was out and when she was sober begged me to stay and that she didn't mean it. We're working on her last straw as of now. STAY AWAY FROM THE BAR. You did well with it.

 

[mature muscle]

that's priceless bro good for you she will think twice about bustin your balls for not drinking

 

[LEX]

well played sir....done that a time or two myself.

 

[massmonster32]

I agree but it seems like people still think the bars and clubs are the most important things in the world to do for fun. I dont do clubs or bars anymore either but get the third degree about how its only for the music etc. I dont get it. But have to go once in a while to keep the peace but always seem to stir up the regulars and I mind my own business unless someone messes with a friend or woman I am with. Glad you got the last laugh stang. MM

You'll get bored with it. I don't even go to bars anymore. Plus, that crap about, "you don't love me" is manipulative as hell. I had one tell me that while I was student teaching. I was nervous as hell everyday, grading papers every night, coaching football, and trying to lift as well. I was pressed for time and I'd get that shit, "You don't love me or you'd come see me"....uh, hello I am trying to make sure we have a future!?

Needless to say, I ended that relationship.

You could have said the same thing, "you don't really love me". She knows how important training and rest are to you and yet she pushes you to stay out late drinking in a stupid bar? Hell, you met her half way and were willing to go out for a little while! lol.

You handled it well. Pretty darn smart. For me, that whole scene isn't worth it though. I worked in bars and there isn't much good in any of it.

 

[TooPowerful4u]

good shyt::ction-sm :food-s;il :de:il-smi

 

[Beta]

sounds good to me...if you throw up from drinking...well you shouldn't be drinking.

 

[seattle rick]

PERFECT

 

[slimjones]

you hatched one helluva diabolical scheme my friend!!! Great idea though w/ the ginger ale!!!

 

[FordTurboDiesel]

WOW...I thought I was the only one that had the imagination to do that.

Way to put people in there place.

 

[mike1107]

good job

I hate it when a girl says that kind of shit

 

[Matte220]

perfect bro, that was perfect! Hope your workout was great! Just needed to channel this anger to the gym.

 

[AWN2004]

Sooner or later you will find a girl that respects what you do. Pretty much she was being selfish. I am lucky enough now to have met a girl that understands bodybuilding was something I was doing BEFORE I met her and she respects that. She may not understand it 100% but she always asks me if I need to go to the gym, cook, or do something related to bodybuilding before we do something together. I also understand she has hobbies too and I respect that as well. Relationships are a two way street and when you meet the right person they are not going to try and alter what it is you are doing but compliment it with what they bring to the relationship. It took a long time for me to learn that.

Now back to your GF telling you "if you really loved me you would drink". For any girl to pull that card is just retarded. Like you getting wasting justifies your love for your girlfriend. Gimme a break! If she loved and respected you, she wouldnt even be asking you those things. I'd be having a talk with her about the whole thing to be honest. I would just ask her why is having me drink with you when you know I dont like to important? Why would you ask me to do something you know I dont like and pressure me to it? Next time you are out and about ask her to do something she is uncomfortable with and see how she reacts and feels. If a person cant respect your wishes then there are going to problems down the road.

 

[buffbabeca]

Sooner or later you will find a girl that respects what you do. Pretty much she was being selfish. I am lucky enough now to have met a girl that understands bodybuilding was something I was doing BEFORE I met her and she respects that. She may not understand it 100% but she always asks me if I need to go to the gym, cook, or do something related to bodybuilding before we do something together. I also understand she has hobbies too and I respect that as well. Relationships are a two way street and when you meet the right person they are not going to try and alter what it is you are doing but compliment it with what they bring to the relationship. It took a long time for me to learn that.

Now back to your GF telling you "if you really loved me you would drink". For any girl to pull that card is just retarded. Like you getting wasting justifies your love for your girlfriend. Gimme a break! If she loved and respected you, she wouldnt even be asking you those things. I'd be having a talk with her about the whole thing to be honest. I would just ask her why is having me drink with you when you know I dont like to important? Why would you ask me to do something you know I dont like and pressure me to it? Next time you are out and about ask her to do something she is uncomfortable with and see how she reacts and feels. If a person cant respect your wishes then there are going to problems down the road.

well said awn..... great post

 

[JCAnderson]

I thought it was a pretty good idea. I bet they won't try that again. Man I haven't been to a bar in a loooong time.

Good for you man.