Anyone's wife get in shape after getting WAY out of shape?

[jayl19]

YEP



and normally, your woman would see all these other women liking you, and would have a fire lit under her ass to stay in shape to keep your attention on her.



but now that you're married? she doesn't have to anymore, because she has you by the balls


((((

Yeah, she started working out shortly after I got on Instagram haha left it 50lb too late though, her skin is ruined, so I'll be forking out 15k+ for surgery or just have to deal with it

 

[OutToLunch]

Then the plan is to support her feeding habit by shoveling more fat and carb laden foods until She croaks. Lol. Then you can start from scratch without a financial burden.

 

[ace24]

My wife was very thin when we met, then came the kid and boom! Major weight gain which stayed for about 18 years. August I was involved in an accident and the only thing that saved me was me size and health, per the doctors. From that day forward, my wife committed herself to the gym and follow a very strict diet. As of right now, she is down 70lbs and looking fucking great! Mind you she is 53 and looks in her 30's now.

Unfortunately it took a major life changing event but she put her head down and is busting her ass!

 

[SIR-LOIN]

Sucks. My wife was 5'11" 130 when we married, hot as hell until 40 or so, great genetics for staying thin, able to eat whatever without having to exercise much. But boy did the genetics come unplugged or something, now she won't even tell me what she weighs, I'm thinking at least 200. Once at the doctor they made her get on the scales and she told me not to look, well I did look, and a very audible "Fuck!" Was heard in the office when I saw it near the 200 mark. Dammit.
And, now, Instead of exercising and eating right, spend hundreds of $$ a month trying to find clothes that hide the fat; big droopy ass long shirts and tight pants. You can tell it a mile away when they are trying to hide something. Every additional 10 lbs is a new wardrobe. FML x2

 

[readyset]

Been married 7 years. She gained a bit of weight every year but past 2 years she has really gained.

I weighed her the other day at the gym. she thought she was 150 lbs. she was shocked to see she was 176. (some body dysmorphia there i think) When we met she was prob 135lbs. she is 35 years old now.

She has never worked out for more than 3 weeks then quits for about a year lol. seriously. she gets very jealous of me getting in shape if/when I do.



I just feel like she will never get back in shape. I don't put much pressure on her, I just tell her it would make her feel better to work out. I love her beyond looks, but I am human... her body has changed so much.... she is still sexy as fuck. most if not all of you would agree but her body has changed a lot....



Anyone have a wife that got out of shape (like more than 25 lbs from start weight) and they DID get back in shape?

what did it take?

what finally motivated her?

did ANYTHING you say or do help motivate her?

-F2S

No. She's still fat. And now she complains about it to boot. I'm done with it. She can be fat I'm not hearing it any longer


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[jlm25]

I told my wife before we got married that she had 6 months to lose the baby fat after we had a kid. She chuckled, and I said i was serious. You're not fat now, you won't be fat after, you won't be fat ever. I take care of myself and you will too. I have no plans on settling down with someone just for them to get fat, fuck that!

 

[burst]

Sucks. My wife was 5'11" 130 when we married, hot as hell until 40 or so, great genetics for staying thin, able to eat whatever without having to exercise much. But boy did the genetics come unplugged or something, now she won't even tell me what she weighs, I'm thinking at least 200. Once at the doctor they made her get on the scales and she told me not to look, well I did look, and a very audible "Fuck!" Was heard in the office when I saw it near the 200 mark. Dammit.
And, now, Instead of exercising and eating right, spend hundreds of $$ a month trying to find clothes that hide the fat; big droopy ass long shirts and tight pants. You can tell it a mile away when they are trying to hide something. Every additional 10 lbs is a new wardrobe. FML x2

Dont take this personally, but some posts in this thread are hilarious lol this is one.

Hope she loses the weight.

 

[SIR-LOIN]

Dont take this personally, but some posts in this thread are hilarious lol this is one.

Hope she loses the weight.

Ha, yeah I laughed at it myself.

 

[Fit2Serve]

THIS

11 years married(16years) togheter.

Wife started at 119 then married and 1 Kid boom! Goes to 194.... that was some Crazy shit
2 years after baby, bypass surgery and back to 125. 2 years after surgery back on 143 and still gaining....

All they do is bitching and bitching and bitching about it out dont really do someting to prevent it....

She Will be back to fat City in 2 years.

Buy i still Love her even if se is 200 pounds

So to answer your question: she will be fatter every year and they dont mind it. She will say thats she dont Like it but they wil do nothing to prevent it. Maybe 3 weeks Tops hahahaha

in my experience so far, this ^ is EXACTLY the case. not what I wanted to hear but I did want the truth!
-F2S

 

[Fit2Serve]

WOW

Damn, tough thread. Believe me, the women have their side of this about us and in spades!

I have always thought this contains a bit of truth on a few levels:

A woman marries a man thinking she can change him, and he doesn't change.

A man marries a woman hoping she doesn't change, and she does.

PWood

never seen it put like that... from my experience I cant argue with that ata ll.
-F2S

 

[Fit2Serve]

i really think thats where i am headed...

No. She's still fat. And now she complains about it to boot. I'm done with it. She can be fat I'm not hearing it any longer


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she wont do anything about it and I bet she ends up looking like her mom (yikes)
-F2S

 

[little slice]

Start putting up maxim posters all around your house lol



Be sure to post results

 

[Fit2Serve]

Start putting up maxim posters all around your house lol



Be sure to post results

she despises Vida Guerra (my all time crush) basically hates anyone that looks like she used to....
its brutal bro. I know you are a bit younger than me, if at all possible marry a girl that is KINDA into the lifestyle of health and fitness. NOT someone that is gonna annoy the shit out of you with it lol but someone aware... my sisters are a bit like me. one runs marathons other does crossfit comps... my wife likes to drink beers at the pool (she is stay at home mom cuz I own my oen biz) and eat shit and bitch how she looks... never compliments me on how I look cuz she hates how she looks... freaking crazy...
-F2S

 

[little slice]

my wife likes to drink beers at the pool (she is stay at home mom cuz I own my oen biz) and eat shit and bitch how she looks... never compliments me on how I look cuz she hates how she looks... freaking crazy...
-F2S

It's not that crazy at all..


My mother drinks full sugared sodas when there's diet sodas in the house..

And she complains about how she looks LOL. My dad always invites her to go on walks with him, and she just bristles and rejects his offer every single time.

But yeah, marriage is not in the plans lol.. I'll have my lady live in my house if she wants, but no contracts are being signed, and I'm gunna stay privy to common law marriage regulations.


I got nothing against marriage, it's just not for me

 

[landmarkchem.linda]

In China, there is a popular exercise that will make woman in shape as well as keep body health. That is-----square dancing!!!lol:headbang:

 

[aon1]

Been married 7 years. She gained a bit of weight every year but past 2 years she has really gained.
I weighed her the other day at the gym. she thought she was 150 lbs. she was shocked to see she was 176. (some body dysmorphia there i think) When we met she was prob 135lbs. she is 35 years old now.
She has never worked out for more than 3 weeks then quits for about a year lol. seriously. she gets very jealous of me getting in shape if/when I do.

I just feel like she will never get back in shape. I don't put much pressure on her, I just tell her it would make her feel better to work out. I love her beyond looks, but I am human... her body has changed so much.... she is still sexy as fuck. most if not all of you would agree but her body has changed a lot....

Anyone have a wife that got out of shape (like more than 25 lbs from start weight) and they DID get back in shape?
what did it take?
what finally motivated her?
did ANYTHING you say or do help motivate her?
-F2S

My wife and I met in high school were now in our early 40s . Over the years and three kids later , busy with life we both ended up getting out of shape. I was first to realize it and wasn't having any part of it so I hit it hard and havnt stopped and I'm getting close to my goals. At first it was just me , and then the kids wanted on board and then with my results the wife came on board. I never pushed it on her but always made it very known to her I'd help anyway she needed. First everyone got on board with the gym because they seen how much I enjoyed it then they wanted the diet. My wife still has a bit to go to be back to her high school weight but she's getting there faster all the time and is doing it in a manner that her body is adjusting as well no skin sagging or anything even close. I think she only got up to maybe 180 but carried decent.

Here's my advise after being together twenty some years I approached it as her friend not her husband, I made sure she new I hoped she bettered herself and would do everything in my power to help that happen but it was up to her. I made it a family activity,stuff is always more appealing as a family effort.I also made sure she new that I would love her if she bettered her self or not but at some point it may take a lot of Viagra and a blindfold lol... I never pushed on her in any way but I think to some degree everyone wants to better then self it just a matter of being in the right environment for it to happen.


Don't know if that helps but that's how my family turned around.My wife and kids will bitch now if they don't get to hit the gym, so if you stay after it suttley but steadily it can be done.

 

[bg091593]

My ex girlfriend wasn't into the gym and fitness or anything like that and would always bitch and complain about how fat she was and I would always say "no you're not cut it out" blah blah blah you guys know how it goes. She would have the family size bags of candy next to her bed so she could reach over and have a few chocolates whenever she wanted, desserts after every meal, full sugar sodas, etc etc etc. Anyway, one day she was doing the typical "god I'm so fat" and I had had enough and I just agreed with her like "yeah you kinda are fat"... guess who was single a week later?

I couldn't handle it. Don't slap the bulls ass then bitch about getting kicked.

 

[readyset]

My ex girlfriend wasn't into the gym and fitness or anything like that and would always bitch and complain about how fat she was and I would always say "no you're not cut it out" blah blah blah you guys know how it goes. She would have the family size bags of candy next to her bed so she could reach over and have a few chocolates whenever she wanted, desserts after every meal, full sugar sodas, etc etc etc. Anyway, one day she was doing the typical "god I'm so fat" and I had had enough and I just agreed with her like "yeah you kinda are fat"... guess who was single a week later?



I couldn't handle it. Don't slap the bulls ass then bitch about getting kicked.

That's my philosophy. I don't care if my wife is fat. She put on a lot of extra weight with her pregnancy, it was a tough one, but gave me a beautiful boy. But she's kept most of it. Again, no problem, I still hit it on the regular and I'm not embarrassed. But she's got a bit of lasagna belly and bitches and moans about clothes and the mirror and this and that. I just tell her "if all yore going to do is complain and do nothing about it, I don't want to hear it." And that goes for anything - her job, her friend, etc. don't just mindlessly bitch. Work it out, fix it, or shut up.

I know I'm supposed to have a gentle ear and just be supportive, but damn enoughs enough. I'm the type to talk things through and have discussions not just whine and complain. Let's figure it out, damnit

She's starting to guilt me for going to the gym. So I'm going more now. Not letting her get me even more out of shape. Now that I'm improving she's starting to ask questions about diet and such. Now I just need to get her back in the gym.

Oh and what really gets me is the fat person "mm" she does when she's eating after every bite. When she cooks she tastes as she goes (phenomenal cook) but I'll here "mm, oo, mm" repeatedly. like she's fucking the food with her mouth. That's a huge red flag there lol

 

[SIR-LOIN]

This is so funny to me. How many times I've had to lie about this
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[tank74]

I actually am... which is why im pissed whenever I see this stuff happening lol.



ive seen my parents' friends' wedding photos.. the men look pretty much the same + a little grey


the women? completely unrecognizable because of how much weight they have gained..


it's just kinda like a giant "f*ck you" to your partner when you let that happen IMO.


goes both ways, of course

This is the point. You should want to please each other equally. My wife and I talk about this all the time. She always brings up the wedding photos comparison too. With most couples, one or both get comfortable ( or entitled), then it becomes a business relationship. if you are dating, make sure you talk about this.