Because I know the situation I am going to try and interject here (likely will regret it).
There are some VERY smart members on this forum that you can learn from.
You are a coach yourself and have extensive knowledge, but if you post a thread asking for input or advice you can’t debate everything you don’t like or agree with as you opened that door.
The solution is to tag members, use DM’s or be more specific in your post if you want more specific answers. If not, you have to take the good with the bad.
That’s my attempt at trying to help you navigate a bit better on here. But will leave it to you guys.