HRT and the cycles I run help my relationship allot (my fiance has amazing libido, yesterday we made love for at least six hours, and now I'm about to get on her for an hour, she enjoys it multiple times a day, or until she's too sore/swollen to go on). Earlier this year I ran out of test for about 2 1/2 months because a source delayed the order. About a week and a half after my last shot my libido was completely gone, my ability to substain 100% or even 80% erection gone I didn't very want to be touched/cuddle even in a friendly way. This is all very different then the version of me that is on trt. My fiance thought "I didn't love her anymore" she would get sad because I denied her advances and asked for space (on HRT can be very grabby/romantic).
I told her it's not you or me it's just a hormone issue at the moment. She was very excited when our delivery came in, more excited than than I was.
If your womanIs willing to give it to you whenever you like but yet you still lust after others, you can't blame it on the test.