so me and my girlfriend both live together with her family.. situations unfortunately handed to me made things end up this way.. we have been together awhile and she along with her family all know im a "user" but they have never really said much.. all of a sudden yesterday we get into a minor disagreement about something and she straight up tells me, "its the juice or me"? take your pick...... as most of you know, our lifestyle is not taken lightly.. i have never once raised a hand to her even though she is a veryyyyyyyyyyy feisty one.. haha but im just looking for advice.. any help brothers? thanks in advice.. 
-J
-J