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Girlfriend and I have been together for almost 8 months now. We haven't engaged in any sexual way in the last 7 weeks. We see each other about 5 nights a week, and sleep over together probably 4 of those.
At first, she was busy with work and stressed. Then she had a yeast infection. Then she was on her period. Then she said was having "rectal problems" of some sort. Now I'm not sure what's going on.
Three weeks ago I asked her how she was doing and she told me she's still having rectal issues and now her vagina is uncomfortable too--something related to her eczema. She wouldn't go into detail or have a discussion about it, but she said she'd go to the doctor, and she does need to--she's developing sores on her upper thighs and butt from compulsively scratching her eczema.
Three weeks pass and she still hasn't gone to the Dr. It's not a financial issue. When I've brought it up a few times over this time frame, she's gotten extremely irritated and refuses to talk about it.
She won't do anything about her supposed health issues, she flips the fuck out when I try to talk to her about these health issues, and in the mean time, I feel myself growing distant toward her without the bond of physical intimacy.
What am I suppose to do?
Talking to her about her health issues or our physically intimacy is not an option anymore--she's has immediately shut down and become angry toward me so many times after I've approached her reasonably that I'm just going to push her away from me.
I'm beginning to feel resentment that the negligence to her supposed health issues comes at the cost of our physical intimacy, my sexual needs, and the overall intimacy of our relationship.
Am I just suppose to sit idly by and hope that one day she goes to the Dr. or starts having sex with me again?
At first, she was busy with work and stressed. Then she had a yeast infection. Then she was on her period. Then she said was having "rectal problems" of some sort. Now I'm not sure what's going on.
Three weeks ago I asked her how she was doing and she told me she's still having rectal issues and now her vagina is uncomfortable too--something related to her eczema. She wouldn't go into detail or have a discussion about it, but she said she'd go to the doctor, and she does need to--she's developing sores on her upper thighs and butt from compulsively scratching her eczema.
Three weeks pass and she still hasn't gone to the Dr. It's not a financial issue. When I've brought it up a few times over this time frame, she's gotten extremely irritated and refuses to talk about it.
She won't do anything about her supposed health issues, she flips the fuck out when I try to talk to her about these health issues, and in the mean time, I feel myself growing distant toward her without the bond of physical intimacy.
What am I suppose to do?
Talking to her about her health issues or our physically intimacy is not an option anymore--she's has immediately shut down and become angry toward me so many times after I've approached her reasonably that I'm just going to push her away from me.
I'm beginning to feel resentment that the negligence to her supposed health issues comes at the cost of our physical intimacy, my sexual needs, and the overall intimacy of our relationship.
Am I just suppose to sit idly by and hope that one day she goes to the Dr. or starts having sex with me again?
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