I have spent more on health care on my two dogs than I have myself. I care deeply and understand your pain.
Story:
Due to my girlfriend being out of the country for three months with an ill parent I brought my dogs to the office so they would not be alone all day. They are trained, I however place a pad in my office so they can relieve themselves if I am not there to take them out.
One of my employees is not in any fashion an animal lover. He complained mightily about the smell. I assure you my dogs do not smell. He does have a very pronounced probiscus and therefore may inhale particles that miss the average size nose. After about two weeks of these cracks I finally broke it down for him:
"My dogs smell better than most of your fellow countrymen who do not live in the major cities (he is from Brazil) and quite frankly if it came to saving my dogs' life or some random human I have never met in the jungles of Brazil, my dogs are probably going to be alive". Further more if one of you needs to leave this office, its not going to be my dogs".
1. This was terrrible and immature to say. 2. It is true.
He almost didn't talk to me for 4 months, and I own the company and office building! He is quite fond of my dogs now BTW.
I only repeat this to show the bonds one can have with their dogs. I feel for you.
Pekkerwood