I agree it's upbringing...I remember when I was a kid, I was a high level athlete and I was in a hockey game and the game was done, countdown to the end and I stole a puck and had an empty net and I showboated the fuck outta the moment and showed up the kid I stole the puck from. My dad tore me a new one, and he said the old sports sayin' act like you've been there before. He kept me out of the next game, I never did that again...and I won't show up anybody now. Your success stands up whether you match it against someone else or not so why try to bring somebody else down with it...in the grand scheme, its money, you didn't solve cancer, you got a few bucks, a few toys, a hot girl...somewhere somebody has better everything, you'll never win that game so enjoy what you have and find a way to give back...I second the volunteer thing if you feel like you're losing balance. I'm not a warm and fuzzy people guy but I love dogs, I volunteer at a shelter, nothing you can buy replaces the feeling you get in making a difference to someone or something.