Tough times, my wife is in hospital….

[Brock456]

Going through some tough times right now. Probably the most stressful point of my life. My wife has been in and out of hospital since early November. She’s currently been in for the last 3 weeks and will be for maybe another month.

(Im not going to say for what bc some of you on here can go pretty low and dig up old posts and throw it in peoples faces and not in the mood…)

It’s been tough trying to manage our 2 young kids, 2 dogs, life in general especially during the holidays….

Early on the gym wasn’t even satisfying me or helping. A couple of workouts I got to the gym and just left bc I wasn’t in the right mindset and couldn’t get focused.

It’s been over a month now so the gym is now my time to separate from the world and life’s problems and get my mind off things.

So much more to say but I’ll leave it at that.
Not looking for attention by any means, just a place to anonymously vent.

You’d be surprised how many people say they are there for you but how so few actually reach out to help….

 

[01dragonslayer]

So sorry to hear this my friend. I'm not one to give advice and I cannot imagine what you are going through right now but I know that you're wife and children need you now more than ever. Be strong for your family. I don't know your stance on faith but the Big Man is always there for you. He has pushed me through difficult times when I needed it most.

Prayers and wishing you the best for your family.

 

[bbxtreme]

Going through some tough times right now. Probably the most stressful point of my life. My wife has been in and out of hospital since early November. She’s currently been in for the last 3 weeks and will be for maybe another month.

(Im not going to say for what bc some of you on here can go pretty low and dig up old posts and throw it in peoples faces and not in the mood…)

It’s been tough trying to manage our 2 young kids, 2 dogs, life in general especially during the holidays….

Early on the gym wasn’t even satisfying me or helping. A couple of workouts I got to the gym and just left bc I wasn’t in the right mindset and couldn’t get focused.

It’s been over a month now so the gym is now my time to separate from the world and life’s problems and get my mind off things.

So much more to say but I’ll leave it at that.
Not looking for attention by any means, just a place to anonymously vent.

You’d be surprised how many people say they are there for you but how so few actually reach out to help….

Excuse my French, but fuck what people think or say.

Sorry to hear about your wife and all that you’re going through at this time of year. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong and truly if you need anything hit me up in DM’s. That’s what this place is here for.

 

[mexbeast]

Really sorry to hear bro!

 

[w8tlifterty]

Thoughts are w you… be the man your wife and children need as you navigate what is ahead.

 

[hogan87]

Better to vent than to hold it in. Keep your focus on the outcomes you want. I feel you. My wife went into labor with our son when she was 25 weeks pregnant. He was born at 27 weeks, 1lb 15oz. Wanna talk about uncertainty! Our daughter was 18 months and I had her by myself. No family in the state to help either. I know all about fake friends too. Had a few legal issues and 98% of people are gone! All phony bitches. Pm if you need to vent.

 

[cage99]

Sorry to hear man. Been there myself, zero family around me, hell I’ve isolated myself from any friends due to my shitty X. I know what’s it’s like to have it all solely on your shoulders. You got lil ones that need you, so focus on them!

Part of being a father is taking shit, alllll kinds of shit and just dealing with it. It’s hard at times, no doubt. I’m not religious, so buckle up and take one day at a time. Hope everything works out for your family.

Cage

 

[BigDogDave65]

Sending prayers and good vibes.

 

[TheOtherOne55]

prayers with u buddy

 

[pesty4077]

Hang in there buddy. Praying for your wife.

 

[Yousef12O2]

Prayers with you brother.

 

[Brock456]

Thank you all. I appreciate you guys.

 

[3BILLS]

Hang in there brother , good times are always around the corner

 

[Cdubw44]

Sorry bud. Prayers sent

 

[Hbone]

Keep you head up! Best wishes

 

[pupu]

Prayers for you and wife.

 

[MackCoach]

Hang in there bro

I feel ya, traumatic car crash 2 weeks ago the highlight of my day now is red light therapy and hydromassage at planet fitness

Please do a set for me

 

[ryan.veneficus]

Sorry to hear that man. Hang in there.

 

[Nlargedshadow]

Prayers for healing for your wife and prayers for you and rest of your family. Gym time, church, outdoors…whatever you need to keep yourself sane and grounded. You gotta help yourself so you are there to help her.

 

[jt4330]

Keep your head up and take it a day at a time which at this point I’m sure you are. I totally understand the sentiment about the zero help. I have been and am in a similar situation. The only true help is the help I pay for. Be strong for your children, and chug along that’s what we do even when in the thick of shit. You will help your wife with her knowing you taking care of the little ones.