Tracking someone on a small forum

[TooPowerful4u]

This is gonna be tuff, but i really want to do it. There is a guy on a forum i participate on related to NJ wrestling that is just a menace. He taunts everyone and makes fun of high school kids and bashes them in a bad way. Everyone in the state hates him, and wants to find out who he is. I just want to get his identity and post it so he will disappear or someone will go after him. How do i go about doing this? Is there a link i can post, where if he clicks on it, it will give me a general location? Cant get IP because you dont have to register for the board, just make a name. No email confirmation or anything. There has GOT to be a sneaky way to track him. Any help is appreciated

 

[Delcoda]

Track him so someone will go after him???

Isn't that illegal in NJ?

Wouldn't that make you an accessory to whatever happens to this kid if someone goes after him?

This is a very poorly thought out plan.

 

[TooPowerful4u]

Track him so someone will go after him???

Isn't that illegal in NJ?

Wouldn't that make you an accessory to whatever happens to this kid if someone goes after him?

This is a very poorly thought out plan.

Nope. Just want to post his name and say something like....hey i heard that so and so is really ...... Say hi to him next match.

 

[K1]

Nope. Just want to post his name and say something like....hey i heard that so and so is really ...... Say hi to him next match.

LMFAO...Good one bro Sorry bro can't help ya though, not computer friendly.....

 

[TestPolska]

Welcome to the internet bro. Sadly I can't help ya.

 

[ironserenity]

If you can get his email, there is software that can find an IP adress and steal it and then from there, the sky is the limit. But TP4U is it really worth the trouble? I see how you are frustrated at some little shit hiding behind a computer screen but you oughta just chat with him a little bit and get to know him... then calmly explain how he is a dousche and will never get anywhere in life if he continues to be an asshole. If he is under eighteen it is no use threatening or scaring him in anyway, just too much of a legal liability...

 

[wrought]

The forum admin should be able to see his IP and they can go from there starting with something like whois. lol, i've seen some guys get roasted for scamming on the car boards because the admins had their IPs and tracked them right back to their name, addy, school history, employer, etc etc.

 

[dragonfire101]

Why even waste your time. If something happens to him as a result from you posting his infomation you could be held accountable. Something like this can make trouble for yourself why do it. I 'm assuning your talking about H.S wrestlers. It wouldn't really be setting a good example to these youth to try and get back at this person you be an adult and all. Karma has a way of finding people who are just JERKS. If this guy is truely a JERK he will eventually run into problems.

 

[Iabadman]

Pm Kaiser.....if not I have somebody.....that isn't free......that who I used when I flew out and beat up that shit talker years ago......lol.......but I think the others guys [dogma and dragonfire101 ] give some great advice.......let it go......if the guy is a dick....he has to live with it ....took me along time to learn that one .........but it is true

 

[Tyrone]

The individual doing this crap is prob. very miserable inside and out...However, YGPM bro

 

[oldfella]

Pm Kaiser.....if not I have somebody.....that isn't free......that who I used when I flew out and beat up that shit talker years ago......lol.......but I think the others guys [dogma and dragonfire101 ] give some great advice.......let it go......if the guy is a dick....he has to live with it ....took me along time to learn that one .........but it is true

I have to agree with IBM. It is not worth the aggrevation, he will get his soon enough. You will only bring trouble to your self. TP you need to learn when to chill and when to act. Focus your energy on your training and your lil bro. You two are doing some great things together, do not let internet assholes get in your way. Take youe anger and frustration and channel that into your training. And believe me, I am no pacifist but this is silly!!

 

[TooPowerful4u]

You guys have to understand....

1. he is bashing high school kids within the sport of wrestling and just being a mean and nasty and hurtful person.
2. He is not just some message board person. He is within our community and at all of the matches we attend, we could be standing right next to him each time.
3. He has even gone as far as to stalk me and then go on the board after the match and talk about how i look, act, my friends, my brother!, etc....

He cannot fly under the radar undetected. I have to find out who he is...maybe not for revenge, but just to out him and make him feel stupid, childish, and embarrased for what he has done. Maybe he will no longer show his face, and we will all be better for it. If someone else takes it upon themselves to attack him, well...thats their choice...plenty hate him so someone will probably do it

 

[alecaf]

I dunno if this will help http://www.metacafe.com/watch/318719/trace_any_ip_address_or_website/

 

[Chuckblonde]

kick his ass seabass

 

[dragonfire101]

Why not just notify the principal of the school of the situation, coach, etc. and they can have him leave the match if he is an issue and bothering harassing the wrestlers or contact the local authorities if he is stalking you and you don't know who he is.
Your going to get yourself in a jam trying to handle it any other way.Leave the detective work up to persons who deal with issues as such and that can resolve the issue by authoritative means. I have dealt with this same type of crap before. It seems you are just falling into this persons game. Maybe this is what they want you to do. It could be a 15 yr old band memeber for all you know who hates wretslers what or a sociopath with an agenda either or are people you really should not be confronting or dealing with as its is not really appropriate behavior. Let the school know and the coach and they will address the issues.

 

[TooPowerful4u]

Why not just notify the principal of the school of the situation, coach, etc. and they can have him leave the match if he is an issue and bothering harassing the wrestlers or contact the local authorities if he is stalking you and you don't know who he is.
Your going to get yourself in a jam trying to handle it any other way.Leave the detective work up to persons who deal with issues as such and that can resolve the issue by authoritative means. I have dealt with this same type of crap before. It seems you are just falling into this persons game. Maybe this is what they want you to do. It could be a 15 yr old band memeber for all you know who hates wretslers what or a sociopath with an agenda either or are people you really should not be confronting or dealing with as its is not really appropriate behavior. Let the school know and the coach and they will address the issues.

Well there lies the problem. We have NO idea who he is. You really think the cops will care someone stalks people and posts on a message board...cmon. Just want to end his little reign of terror or whatever you will call it...hes anoying and hes among us..hes not hundreds of miles away where we can just ignore him. He taunts and bashes the ones we love and is there on site.

Its like someone in your gym stalking you, comes on here and talks trash about you...brings up shit you do in the gym...makes fun of your wife who is at the gym with you...what would you do???

 

[dragonfire101]

Its like someone in your gym stalking you, comes on here and talks trash about you...brings up shit you do in the gym...makes fun of your wife who is at the gym with you...what would you do???

I wouldn't do anything if I knew there was a possibilty to actually cause a confrontation if this person actually decided to come foward if I made him out or if they just decided to come foward and let thereself be known. In your example I would just let the gym manager know there was somebody harassing me and my wife in they gym,an anaonamous member and just wanted to let you know up front in case this person eventually confronts me I do not wish to be in a possible altercation and if they make themself known can you address this behavior with them. It sounds like you may have more of a personal issue with this persons than the wrestlers. I don't know. Like I said I would just notify the principal there is an unknown person in the audiance that has been harassing the wrestlers if this is the case and if thier indentity is found out can they be spoken to about there behavior.

I had a stalker and someone harassing me talking crap that I did not know. They eventually left me alone once I ignored them. There not causing you any physical harm I would just leave it alone. I would not even respond to them any longer if you are doing that now on the message board your talking about. As for that I would hope the board administrator could help resolve the issue.

I work with teens on a daily basis and also deal with this type of suff every now and then with them. What type of role model would I be and teaching them if I was to go and try to track a person down.

Bro, your an adult I can't tell you what to do, just give my 2cents, whatever decision you make, be safe and just remember your actions can influenece others and if there are younger persons involved they may be looking torwards you as a role model.

 

[STEEDA69]

Geesh man I know how frustrated you must feel! There are definitely ways you can find this person but I can't divulge too much information here! Too be honest, I don't know if it's even worth the hassle given the circumstances! If it was someone who scammed you or someone directly threatening you or your family, it would be a little more feasible!

Here are some "HYPOTHETICAL" questions for YOU to answer!

Do you have ANY info??? His "general" location?? His location in reference to yours??? (for example: if you knew he lived in the same State as you or one adjacent to yours etc...); His name perhaps?

Do you wanna find him yourself or do you want to "hire" someone to locate him for you??? (it's perfectly legal to have a "professional" locate someone (like a family member) for you)

In the future, it would be wise to NOT broadcast your intentions! There are subtle ways of finding the means to accomplish such a task. It just takes some time to "dig" around a little!

Good luck to you! I hope you can resolve your issue!



STEEDA~

 

[TooPowerful4u]

I wouldn't do anything if I knew there was a possibilty to actually cause a confrontation if this person actually decided to come foward if I made him out or if they just decided to come foward and let thereself be known. In your example I would just let the gym manager know there was somebody harassing me and my wife in they gym,an anaonamous member and just wanted to let you know up front in case this person eventually confronts me I do not wish to be in a possible altercation and if they make themself known can you address this behavior with them. It sounds like you may have more of a personal issue with this persons than the wrestlers. I don't know. Like I said I would just notify the principal there is an unknown person in the audiance that has been harassing the wrestlers if this is the case and if thier indentity is found out can they be spoken to about there behavior.

I had a stalker and someone harassing me talking crap that I did not know. They eventually left me alone once I ignored them. There not causing you any physical harm I would just leave it alone. I would not even respond to them any longer if you are doing that now on the message board your talking about. As for that I would hope the board administrator could help resolve the issue.

I work with teens on a daily basis and also deal with this type of suff every now and then with them. What type of role model would I be and teaching them if I was to go and try to track a person down.

Bro, your an adult I can't tell you what to do, just give my 2cents, whatever decision you make, be safe and just remember your actions can influenece others and if there are younger persons involved they may be looking torwards you as a role model.

I dont wish for an altercation. It was only an initial reaction when i heard about this guy. Then he started attacking me and my bro, so i got mad. I just want to out him and make his identity known (which he does not want) and il leave it at that. The embarrasment alone will probably banish him and that is punishment enough.

 

[Rollie]

Ban him from the message board?
Phone police, 'cyber bullying' is starting to become a serious issue.
This is a steroid forum and it sounds like a junior high issue.