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- Aug 4, 2003
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I am sorry to see that the guys at mayhem jumped your shit and turned on you [ did you see Arntz 's poem that he wrote you? Unbelievable]. I know that you helped and inspired alot folks over there . Honestly , that is why I am careful to what , when , and where I post . Which is sad , but with my temperment and ability to back my shit up I would be fighting the world. I admit that sometimes I read what you write and I am shocked that you don't realize how you sound or maybe don't care........I know that this is all fun and games to you [ and it should be to a point ], but remember you are a very tallented bodybuilder with a bright future.[ if you want it] So people are going be harder on you than others.......sometimes sarcasim and double edged complements are not easy to see via the net. [ I think that is where you and I had a falling out ......but I honestly like you sharing your journey with us .......I feel fortunate to see where your path takes you.....You have a good perspective of things......and could do alot of good for the sport if you choose to ] See the power you have my friend, and use it wisely ........I am sincerly glad that you are here and I wish you nothing but good health , happiness , and great success.........just remember you are a role model to a certain extent . People are watching you..........be yourself bro .......but tone it down a little .......and make sure to be respectful.......and realize the politics of the net. You can take my advice or tell me to fuck off , but I am really only wanting you to see the big picture [ your impact on others and value to the sport ] . That is all......take it or leave it ......either way best of luck in your future Vander.......Oh, by the way, I really wanted to jump in and get your back on Mayhem , but Massive G is a good friend , someone that I respect , he is a Mod over there. I didn't want jump in until I talked to him first.......I do have your back if you want it.......PM me if you want [ so I can give Massive the heads up ] I really hope you are cool with this post .......it is only out of respect ......