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Phil ..........I believe Vander wouldnt do that to you ...........you guys are like brothers .....you fight and talk shit to one another .....but in the end pussy is not that big of deal to him .......He seems to not let too many close , but those that are seem to be blessed with a true friend [he wouldnt give his time if he didnt care about you ].......We are your friends too , bro [ I know Jersey , it is a tough place to make and keep real friends , so be careful].......I would never sell anyone out here ,weither I know them, or not over pussy or anything else ........not my style ......I have had far more than my share ......I am always careful of another man's feelings when it comes to the ass I get ...........Remember , I live by the golden rule , " do unto anothers as you would want done to you " ..............I do my best to live by that everyday ..............not easy at times .....but when it comes to common respect , I am all about it ........I could never hurt someone over ass ..........no way ....And I dont betray my friends ............just not me in any ,way, shape or form .....I dont understand greed or selfishness ......they just dont exist in my world ....I have at least 20 people that see me as their best friend , and I mentor a couple of younger guys that actually see me as their dad , and also I have people that I talk to from all over the country that I offer and lend support to ....so ,as you know I am far from perfect ..........but little bro , keep learning to love yourself , and treat other people as you wish to be treated and believe me ........I promise you will have lots of real friends ....[ how close you let them is up to you....I keep my guard up way too much .....it was only recently [when everything collasped ]that did I start to see all of the wonderful people that love and care for me because of the way that I live my life .....even here people are just great to me ] Just remember being a person is no different than being a bodybuilder .....doing the right thing everyday leads to success and happiness...............move forward ......there is a ton of good stuff ahead for you .........I can feel it .[ and you know I dont bullshit ]