The new girlfriend seems to think anal sex is pretty weird just based on some of the comments she's made. I haven't asked her directly if she's willing to give it a go. Some of my previous girlfriends have suggested it themselves or were down to try it without much convincing, so I haven't had to work to hard to talk a girl into it in the past. For those of you who have been in this situation how did you succeed in talking your girl into it? I'm of the school of thought that its not something to talk about directly, just start playing with / licking her ass during sex and over a few weeks work up to putting in a finger and then go from there. I think being direct about it would be a recipe for a straight up "no" and it will then be even harder to talk her into it. Thoughts?