Honestly it really depends on where you are in the country or world for that matter. Its been my observation that women in bigger cities or more populated areas like more muscular men. I have done the internet dating thing and talked to women all over the country. The most positive responses I got to off season or competition photos were in the following locales:
Jersey (yes Jersey)
New York (State and city)
Florida
Texas
California
Arizona
Maryland (especially closer to DC or Baltimore)
The worst areas are the south. NC, SC, Tenn just hate big muscular men-sure theres the odd isolated pocket but for the most part its poots-ville. They want soft non aggressive non manly men who arent threatening.
As far as 'disgusting' I think for me it started at 240, really got bad at 270 and anything over 300 was like you were a fucking circus freak show attraction....which I was just fine with- negative reactions meant I was getting results.
The odd thing was the better shape I got in before shows really sent women into repulsion overdrive, the only women who liked it were competitive themselves, and oh yes- strippers liked it, liked it a lot.