crazy wife

[hardheaded]

long story short... I am 33 and my wife is 44.. I think she is going through premenopause.. she doesn't sleep, moody as hell(threatens to kill me sometimes) hot flashes,etc... I love her to death, I mean crazy in love with her... but this is more than I can handle sometimes, not sure how to get through it.. been doing a lot of research on it, they say not to act like you know how to help.. she needs to get check up, but she want go... we can go weeks and everything will be great, then she will get really tired and turn into the devil... any suggestions?

 

[pesty4077]

we can go weeks and everything will be great, then she will get really tired and turn into the devil... any suggestions?

You sure it isn't that time of the month? My wife's head spins around and she vomits, and talks to me in a deep voice.

 

[hardheaded]

You sure it isn't that time of the month? My wife's head spins around and she vomits, and talks to me in a deep voice.

couldn't tell you... she has been going through this last two years, just not this bad... hasn't had her monthly visit in bout 4 months.. from what I read, they do say a lot of times their bodies still know when their cycle is, and their moods sometimes do change.. just not sure how to cope with it... the more I read on it, the more I worry for her.. even read that if a woman goes without seeing a doctor, that with their drops in estogen, and hormones changing, it can lead to heart disease.. who knows, I may end up as a lifetime channel movie of the week...

 

[pesty4077]

couldn't tell you... she has been going through this last two years, just not this bad... hasn't had her monthly visit in bout 4 months.. from what I read, they do say a lot of times their bodies still know when their cycle is, and their moods sometimes do change.. just not sure how to cope with it... the more I read on it, the more I worry for her.. even read that if a woman goes without seeing a doctor, that with their drops in estogen, and hormones changing, it can lead to heart disease.. who knows, I may end up as a lifetime channel movie of the week...

On a serious note, my wife had severe depression, she lost 2 brothers in a year period. Best thing she did was go to the Doctor, he put on something and then she was alright. You have to show patience, it is for better or worse and sometimes it can get ugly. Just show her your love and be sensitive, that goes a long way.

 

[muscledoc1]

Holy water and a cross may help...

 

[hardheaded]

thanks pesty...... its funny tonight we talked like normal for bout 2 hours... told her I loved her and next ting I know she told me to drop dead and hopes my two useless kids die too... sooooo I was floored, haven't talked since... on the couch I go

 

[ericraven2003]

Just curious. How has the age difference played in your relationship? Has it made a difference as she has aged? Do you think when she hits 50 and you are in your late 30's it will then? I ask because a friend of mind is daing a woman that is 46 and he is 36. I have advised against in the long term. Just curious your view being in one of these relationships. Sorry to derail the topic.

 

[Lenny]

You sure it isn't that time of the month? My wife's head spins around and she vomits, and talks to me in a deep voice.

Sorry.... I had to laugh because that is some funny shit and can be true at times

 

[ENraged]

thanks pesty...... its funny tonight we talked like normal for bout 2 hours... told her I loved her and next ting I know she told me to drop dead and hopes my two useless kids die too... sooooo I was floored, haven't talked since... on the couch I go

I would drop the go see a doctor and a shrink within the next two weeks or my 2 useless kids and I are gone leaving your crazy as here! bomb
Life is to short and I for one refuse to be anything but happy!

 

[pumpjockey]

DR. phil did a show on this subject.....I think it was tuesday.....I was working and not really paying attention, but looked pretty interesting.......I think you can check it out at Dr. Phil.com

 

[njpooldude]

If i had a wife and kids, and the wife told me and my USESLESS kids to drop, id be OUT!!!!! f that shit man... its called ungreatful bitch..

 

[Gators]

After divorcing a good lady that has the 40ish mid life crazies, my advice would be to run as fast as you can, it doesn't get better anytime soon, at least that was my experience. My life is much more sane now, but i won't lie, the divorce was a brutal experience...

 

[VallhallaOrBust]

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[Gators]

Good Lord, i read some of that and i was like "how do they know my story"

 

[sadie]

44 is kinda young to be full on menopause isnt it? every older woman i know still bitches about their hormones well into their 50s.. my mother JUST hit menopause at 59.. maybe your wife has some other issues going on? is she depressed or wreckless?

 

[klowndog]

Put it in her Bum Bum.

When mine gets out of line, I simply put it in her hiney, and it let's her know real quick who the stud is in our house. I'm the boss.