Listen guys.........

[marilyn]

I was not going to come on for a while at least, and certaintly wasnt going to answer to any speculations on my marriage ending, but I now feel I should say something.....

Many of you have said some really nice touching words and this is why Im posting..

First of all, thank you to those who are supportive and not judging, or speculating........I can't control what others do, or say, and really don't care about that...I really don't live my life worried about what others think, or think they know....I live for my kids and myself and for a long time for Tony.

I want to say, it was a beautiful poem that Tony wrote, and its been hard. (still is). But it does happen, and I am sorry that some of you felt sad and sick over it, as I never intent to hurt anyone, ever.

To Jason, my friend, I will always think of you with much love as well, and hope you find the happiness you deserve...Your post was perfect. Thank you.

Now, please move on from the guessing games, and NO, this has nothing to do with bodybuilding............If this was the case, it would have ended a long time ago.

I hope this isnt taken the wrong way for anyone, but if it does, well it does.

Only because of some good friendships on here and positive support, I felt ok to post this.


and really thank you for the support for Tony it was beautiful.

 

[Gunsmith]

Best wishes and good luck in all you future endevors , for you and Tony both.

Some people just dont understand that somtimes it just doesn't workout , even after years and years , been through that myself.

I sure that i speek for most of the people here when i say that you BOTH have a big support groupe here and i know i look forward to seeing your BOTH around

Take care and good luck

 

[Lenny]

You both are wonderful people. And your right we do not know the story, I hope if possible you all can stick around here (Promuscle), but I totally understand why that my be difficult. I am playing neutral here regardless because I think both you are unique and great people in your own way. Thanks for all the positive posts and best wishes to you. You know I am a fan of both of you regardless of the situation, things change sometimes along the road, that is just life.

 

[myosin]

I'm sure it took a lot to post that... and a lot to get to the point of having to post that.

 

[Hungry Hungarian]

I have always respected the support and positive attitude you have shown to everyone on here, M. I wish the both of you the best in this trying time. I went through the exact same thing as you years ago and I know how difficult it can and will be. But with good friends and family anything can be overcome. Remember the only constant in life is change....it's how you acept and deal with the change that makes the difference!

 

[RESTLESS1]

best wishes to you.......

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

Marilyn, all the very best to you and the kids and to Tony. You do what you have to do in order to get yourself and your life right. And please don't be a stranger. God Bless.

 

[wtw11171]

Blessings to you Marilyn. Both you and Tony as well as your children are in my thoughts. I will continue to offer you up in meditation and prayer. Pax.

Warren

 

[thebrick]

There is no point to speculation. There is no point for finding blame. It doesn't matter. The past is gone and done. What does matter is today and the future. I hope you both find happiness and can live your lives in a good place when you come through this dark tunnel. You both certainly deserve that.

 

[Thick1]

No speculation, just wishing you and Tony the best along with the children. God Speed to all of you, may you all find happiness down the road.

 

[machola]

Wish you both all the best. Time heals all wounds

 

[Phidias]

From the bottom of my heart, best of luck to you and Tony, Marylin.

Hopefully your kids won't suffer too much from the break-up...

 

[Yohimbe33]

Good luck to the both of you for the future and if there is any bitterness-let it go. Life is really too short

 

[Ehren]

Been there myself...it's not easy. Good luck to you and Tony.

 

[hard2core2]

Marilyn,

I am keeping you and Tony in prayer. I certainly hope that you both remain members on pro muscle. I do understand that you both may need time for yourselves. Just remember your not forgotten and many people on this site care about both of you.

All the best

"I Can Do All Things Through Christ Who Strengthens Me"

Philippians 4:13


Ivor

I was not going to come on for a while at least, and certaintly wasnt going to answer to any speculations on my marriage ending, but I now feel I should say something.....

Many of you have said some really nice touching words and this is why Im posting..

First of all, thank you to those who are supportive and not judging, or speculating........I can't control what others do, or say, and really don't care about that...I really don't live my life worried about what others think, or think they know....I live for my kids and myself and for a long time for Tony.

I want to say, it was a beautiful poem that Tony wrote, and its been hard. (still is). But it does happen, and I am sorry that some of you felt sad and sick over it, as I never intent to hurt anyone, ever.

To Jason, my friend, I will always think of you with much love as well, and hope you find the happiness you deserve...Your post was perfect. Thank you.

Now, please move on from the guessing games, and NO, this has nothing to do with bodybuilding............If this was the case, it would have ended a long time ago.

I hope this isnt taken the wrong way for anyone, but if it does, well it does.

Only because of some good friendships on here and positive support, I felt ok to post this.


and really thank you for the support for Tony it was beautiful.

 

[Michaelthomasj]

From yours and tony's posts you both seem like nice people, and i wish the best for both of you; together or sepparate

 

[b-boy]

GOD bless! marilyn, i wish nothing but the best for YOU and Tony, together or apart i wish you both the best, it was a pleasure meeting you both

 

[Mike Hunt]

i would most likely need cliff notes to understand whats going on. But what i can say is that there is a brighter day ahead, you may be down now but it will get better

you know what they say, only time heals.

 

[marilyn]

positive thoughts and good influences are good for everyone....responsibilities, compasion and actions (good actions) are great.

Those who know me a bit, know I will do my best to help others when I can even from a far and most times with only simple words of encouragement, or ideas on moving forward if thats what is needed.....I will stay on and continue to do that as I enjoy it very much. thanks guys.

 

[FordTurboDiesel]

It's amazing the compassion and pain people can feel for two others while not being the people even going through the situation.

It's a good testimony to the Glue this board generates.

Marilyn.
I was down in FL this last Feb. I talked to Tony for quite awhile on the phone and hoped we could meet while I was there. I wish now looking back I made more of an effort to meet you two.

Good Luck. I, "HOPE" that whatever it takes for you two to be happy will arrive sooner than later. Unfortunately, the "real world" senario usually plays out different.