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I beg to differ. There is no comparison to be made between sexual infidelity and privately using AAS. Unless you are swingers then coupling (short or long term) entails sexual fidelity, it's a "social contract" if you like. There is no such implied/social contract in relation to your use of drugs unless your using could reasonably place her freedom, life or health in jeopardy eg. you share needles or you use recreational drugs and then drive a car with her in it. There is no angle I can find in which sexual infidelity belongs in the same category as self-regarding drug use.
How about her legal liabilities that may involve you transporting gear while in the same vehicle or storing gear in the place you reside where she hangs out with you? Either could potentially cause her unanticipated legal problems if you go down for some reason.
I hardly think you'd appreciate your gf/wife having a harmless lady's night out on the town where she omits mentioning how she'd be doing Ecstacy or Cocaine.
It sounds to me like you'd rather not complicate your relationships by dealing with this issue head on. Personally I'd rather not risk getting caught being shady and ruining her trust. Then again I don't have a problem finding girls to sleep with. Other guys aren't so fortunate.
I'd like to hear a female's opinion of your "implied/social" contract's parameters.
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