Anyone's wife get in shape after getting WAY out of shape?

[readyset]

How do you know what percentage of the population it is? based on your experiences or what the media portrays?



Shelby Starnes posted this the other day;



Sometimes you can tell.

You see a stranger and you can tell they love carbs. Or you can tell they don’t exercise.

Sometimes you can tell they are lazy, and don’t care about their appearance, and don’t know how to take care of themselves.

BUT

Sometimes you don’t know about what else they have going on. You don’t know about their personal struggles. You don’t know about their metabolic issues. You don’t know that maybe they’ve already dropped thirty pounds and are working on the other one hundred now. You don’t know that they are probably better than you at a lot of really important things.

So it’s probably best to hold off on the judgments.

It doesn't matter. This was a very light hearted thread and because it has something you don't agree with you feel it necessary to chastise others. You're the type of guy who walks out of a comedy club when a joke hits too close to home.

We can judge joke and laugh. And you can disagree and we can disagree. That's how this whole thing works. Trying to censor people and tell them how to speak because of your personal beliefs and because you dont agree is unnecessary.

I'd say instead of scolding people try to truly educate them instead of posting about 1 rare person. And realize that there was levity in this thread


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[johnjuanb1]

The bigger the cushion, the sweeter the pushin'
That's what I said
The looser the waistband, the deeper the quicksand
Or, so I've read.
My baby fits me like a flesh tuxedo
I love to sink her with my pink torpedo.
Big bottom
Big bottom
Talk about bum cakes
My gal's got 'em.
Big bottom
Drive me out of my mind.
How can I leave this behind?
I saw her on Monday, twas my lucky bun day
You know what I mean.
I love her each weekday, each velvety cheek day
You know what I mean.

 

[jlm25]

It doesn't matter. This was a very light hearted thread and because it has something you don't agree with you feel it necessary to chastise others. You're the type of guy who walks out of a comedy club when a joke hits too close to home.

We can judge joke and laugh. And you can disagree and we can disagree. That's how this whole thing works. Trying to censor people and tell them how to speak because of your personal beliefs and because you dont agree is unnecessary.

I'd say instead of scolding people try to truly educate them instead of posting about 1 rare person. And realize that there was levity in this thread


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Getting irritated with your s/o for getting fat is one thing..judging others is another dude. I didn't chastise others, I'm not the only one who often gets tired of slice's patronizing remarks

 

[readyset]

Getting irritated with your s/o for getting fat is one thing..judging others is another dude. I didn't chastise others, I'm not the only one who often gets tired of slice's patronizing remarks

We all judge. We all joke. And you did, whether slice deserves it or not. It's all good my man. This thread is still funny


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[little slice]

Getting irritated with your s/o for getting fat is one thing..judging others is another dude. I didn't chastise others, I'm not the only one who often gets tired of slice's patronizing remarks

I think people just need thicker skin..



but not TOO thick.. if you know what I mean.




look. this is what it really boils down to... out of ALL the things in the world, being fat is pretty much the ONLY thing that is completely within our control.

with the knowledge, equipment, and supplements that are readily available to us, there is absolutely NO excuse for being fat.


if you dont have access to these things, just fucking EAT LESS.. it really is that simple..


fat = stored excess calories. Ergo, stop eating more than you need.

it's not magic, it's not hard.. the idea that so many people "struggle" with this is mind boggling.


I mean... think of the audacity of it..

half of the world is starving to death, women and children...literally starving...to death.


and americans are SO fat that they are literally immobile, and on top of that, they have the nerve to claim victimhood and discrimination... and government benefits (whole other topic)


the idea that you can present the best version of yourself to your spouse on your wedding day, and then shortly thereafter, morph into a weather balloon is wrong. there is NO justification for it.

if you allow your body to go to shit, you do not love your partner, nor do you respect them.


there is no fat gene, no genetic predisposition to gaining hundreds of excess pounds..


it's indefensible.. and my logic cannot be refuted.




and before anyone says anything, I personally have tried countless times to help fatties.. I have written dozens of diet plans and workout/supplement regimens (all for free) for them to meet their requests. I really thought they wanted to make a positive change for themselves.

the workout regimens? too hard..

the diets? not "tasty" enough..

as im sure many who have posted in this thread know, getting a fatty to change themselves (changes they claim they WANT to make) is like herding cats




but I digress



edit: I don't mean to get all serious.. but it just depresses the shit out of me to see someone walking around with their obese spouse in tow.

the look on their faces... it's like they've lost their soul, and are just counting down the days until they die and can be free from their corpulent burdens.



and im not even married LOL... I really feel for you guys, that's all im saying.

 

[readyset]

I think people just need thicker skin..







but not TOO thick.. if you know what I mean.









look. this is what it really boils down to... out of ALL the things in the world, being fat is pretty much the ONLY thing that is completely within our control.



with the knowledge, equipment, and supplements that are readily available to us, there is absolutely NO excuse for being fat.





if you dont have access to these things, just fucking EAT LESS.. it really is that simple..





fat = stored excess calories. Ergo, stop eating more than you need.



it's not magic, it's not hard.. the idea that so many people "struggle" with this is mind boggling.





I mean... think of the audacity of it..



half of the world is starving to death, women and children...literally starving...to death.





and americans are SO fat that they are literally immobile, and on top of that, they have the nerve to claim victimhood and discrimination... and government benefits (whole other topic)





the idea that you can present the best version of yourself to your spouse on your wedding day, and then shortly thereafter, morph into a weather balloon is wrong. there is NO justification for it.



if you allow your body to go to shit, you do not love your partner, nor do you respect them.





there is no fat gene, no genetic predisposition to gaining hundreds of excess pounds..





it's indefensible.. and my logic cannot be refuted.









and before anyone says anything, I personally have tried countless times to help fatties.. I have written dozens of diet plans and workout/supplement regimens (all for free) for them to meet their requests. I really thought they wanted to make a positive change for themselves.



the workout regimens? too hard..



the diets? not "tasty" enough..



as im sure many who have posted in this thread know, getting a fatty to change themselves (changes they claim they WANT to make) is like herding cats









but I digress

I laughed out loud at "tried countless times to help fatties" perfect God damn wording.


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[johnjuanb1]

I laughed out loud at "tried countless times to help fatties" perfect God damn wording.


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I've tried too and all I heard were excuses and rationalization to continue to eat like shit.

 

[bg091593]

I think people just need thicker skin..



but not TOO thick.. if you know what I mean.




look. this is what it really boils down to... out of ALL the things in the world, being fat is pretty much the ONLY thing that is completely within our control.

with the knowledge, equipment, and supplements that are readily available to us, there is absolutely NO excuse for being fat.


if you dont have access to these things, just fucking EAT LESS.. it really is that simple..


fat = stored excess calories. Ergo, stop eating more than you need.

it's not magic, it's not hard.. the idea that so many people "struggle" with this is mind boggling.


I mean... think of the audacity of it..

half of the world is starving to death, women and children...literally starving...to death.


and americans are SO fat that they are literally immobile, and on top of that, they have the nerve to claim victimhood and discrimination... and government benefits (whole other topic)


the idea that you can present the best version of yourself to your spouse on your wedding day, and then shortly thereafter, morph into a weather balloon is wrong. there is NO justification for it.

if you allow your body to go to shit, you do not love your partner, nor do you respect them.


there is no fat gene, no genetic predisposition to gaining hundreds of excess pounds..


it's indefensible.. and my logic cannot be refuted.




and before anyone says anything, I personally have tried countless times to help fatties.. I have written dozens of diet plans and workout/supplement regimens (all for free) for them to meet their requests. I really thought they wanted to make a positive change for themselves.

the workout regimens? too hard..

the diets? not "tasty" enough..

as im sure many who have posted in this thread know, getting a fatty to change themselves (changes they claim they WANT to make) is like herding cats




but I digress



edit: I don't mean to get all serious.. but it just depresses the shit out of me to see someone walking around with their obese spouse in tow.

the look on their faces... it's like they've lost their soul, and are just counting down the days until they die and can be free from their corpulent burdens.



and im not even married LOL... I really feel for you guys, that's all im saying.

That was probably the best post I've read on promuscle.

 

[Fit2Serve]

to add some positivity to the thread...

wife was getting ready to go to the gym.... I was watching her change into yoga pants sports bra etc... we end up having incredible sex... and we both blew off the gym.
I am in love w my wife. beyond physical attraction but I do want her happy. and when she always complains about her body and gets more insecure as she gets out of shape and I stay in shape I just wish I could fix it for her... but priorities are different for everyone.... and I cant fix it for her but of course I love her no matter what.
however, if I should look at porn you think I am watching BBW porn?
NOPE. just sayin....
-F2S

 

[Sugashane]

edit: I don't mean to get all serious.. but it just depresses the shit out of me to see someone walking around with their obese spouse in tow.

the look on their faces... it's like they've lost their soul, and are just counting down the days until they die and can be free from their corpulent burdens.



and im not even married LOL... I really feel for you guys, that's all im saying.

Slice it seems shocking that you made a post that makes me appreciate my wife's weight loss even more. lol

 

[frink71]

Lol- didn't realize I was talking to know it alls. I know a gal who had 5 brain surgeries, diagnosed with thyroid cancer, was put on prednisone all within 3 years. There isn't much she could do to control her weight gain when she lost 60% of motor function.

She could have not eaten

 

[Ehren]

out of ALL the things in the world, being fat is pretty much the ONLY thing that is completely within our control.

Well, that and getting married or not...

 

[Steelex]

God this thread makes me hate my GF even more.

We got together because we were fuck buddies and I got her pregnant. Now she's put on 30lbs and is a pro couch potato.

Honestly it's embarrassing going out with her. Im jacked and tan, and she has a pot belly.

Unfortunately we have a kid so this whole process is going to suck. FMMFL.

 

[tren_plz]

This threads a real confidence booster. Appreciate my life even more.

 

[johnjuanb1]

God this thread makes me hate my GF even more.

We got together because we were fuck buddies and I got her pregnant. Now she's put on 30lbs and is a pro couch potato.

Honestly it's embarrassing going out with her. Im jacked and tan, and she has a pot belly.

Unfortunately we have a kid so this whole process is going to suck. FMMFL.

Tell her you want to spend more time together and convince her to be your training partner. I had 2 long term relationships where the women were my workout partners and they had perfect bodies! Women are the best leg workout partners. They have such a high pain tolerance.
Try to stay positive and don’t give up!

 

[tren_plz]

Tell her you want to spend more time together and convince her to be your training partner. I had 2 long term relationships where the women were my workout partners and they had perfect bodies! Women are the best leg workout partners. They have such a high pain tolerance.
Try to stay positive and don’t give up!

 

[johnjuanb1]

Nothing lasts forever

 

[little slice]

Tell her you want to spend more time together and convince her to be your training partner. I had 2 long term relationships where the women were my workout partners and they had perfect bodies! Women are the best leg workout partners. They have such a high pain tolerance.
Try to stay positive and don’t give up!

those women had no leverage over you.

 

[BOWTECH]

In the 1st pic I was 185, 38% bf... fat! 2nd pic is 160, 7%bf.
Yes, it's possible to get out of shape and get back into shape. I've had 3 kids, was a single parent, and very unhappy when I was at my heaviest.

Your wife is already aware of her shape, and is unhappy about it. Most women swallow their issues, literally and figuratively. Check her hormones, blood work, and lifes circumstances. Seriously. If a woman isn't happy, fulfilled, and feeling loved on the inside, no medical intervention will help her change her physique. Get her excited about something in life... a new project, learning something new, some home redecorating. Seriously, again. Enthusiasm and outside interests and challenges will be the catalyst to get physically fired up.

Perfect example of getting fit right here. All women should strive to be in great shape. Being fat unless you have a serious medical condition is plain unacceptable. You look great I wish 95% of women could have the mindset and determination you obviously have. Great job.

 

[dale338]

God this thread makes me hate my GF even more.

We got together because we were fuck buddies and I got her pregnant. Now she's put on 30lbs and is a pro couch potato.

Honestly it's embarrassing going out with her. Im jacked and tan, and she has a pot belly.

Unfortunately we have a kid so this whole process is going to suck. FMMFL.

I mean this with no disrespect to you, or to any women. I will treat all women right, but one thing I will no longer do is stick around for any cause that does not benefit us both. Life is way, way to short my brother.

You got a kid and want to be part of his or her life? Hats off to you, but do not let the woman play that trap game. FUCK THAT.

You must remember this, as a man, something that took me about two decades to figure out and it is not intended to be disrespectful to women. But as a man, the woman should fit into your life. She should enhance your life and like who and what you are so much, she thrives to push you and support you, or she needs to go. Period! If she tries to bring you down, or gets insecure because of who you are, going to the gym or whatever, cut your losses and dump her.

Mt first wife did that shit to me. I was a gym rat from 15 on, met her at 18, married at 19. By the time I was 22, I was ripped and she did not like it. She started having issues with my going to the gym and I let her win. I lost a lot of my gains and got soft by age 24 and what did she do? She took up marathon running and fitness and got her ass in shape. While she didn't like me doing it. Hypocrisy. By age 25 I was back training and she started squabbling again. I just ignored her.

A good woman will always support you and back you. Remember, she fits into YOUR life or she get gone.