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Haven't been around in awhile. Divorce final next week in Court and just been preparing for it and just trying to maintain bills and my home.
Divorces can be a long, stressful process that have the ability to just suck the life out of you. There's a reason divorces are rated right at the top of life's most stressful events. Hang tough. Focus on the goal at hand. I'm sure you are. Try to stay positive. Its OK to grieve and be angry too.
After my really ugly divorce years ago, when it was over, I felt like I had just come home after fighting a war. I was exhausted in every way, but very relieved it was finally over. After the fight, I could take off my armor, not be watching my back and just go back to being me. I didn't have to worry about paying lawyers and getting papers ready and signed and what if she tries this or tries that… I could just worry about what kind of pizza and beer I wanted that Friday night. Having my life back felt great. And it was MY life again.
What goes around, comes around… good things will come your way.