Hey guys I need your honest opinions on my recent (almost) divorce

[JAP426]

I will give you guys the Readers Digest version instead of the long version. So I told my wife in June that I was filing for divorce and I moved out of our home a short time later in July. In my state you have to be separated for 6 months before a divorce can be finalized. I THOUGHT that I was not happy and that my life would be better if I was single. I could have not been more wrong. The grass was defintely not greener on the other side. About 2 weeks ago I I re-contacted her and told her how wrong that I was. Unfortunately she told me that she had moved on and started dating a guy about 2 months ago. She did agree to go out to dinner with me and we had a LONG heart to heart talk. The next day she broke it off with her boyfriend and told me that she was willing to work things out in our marriage. But I am not sure I can get past the thought of her being with another man. I realize that she did not cheat on me and that I was the one who left her. I know its not her fault but I just don't know if I can stomach the thought. How would you guys feel about the situation? Please give an honest opinion. (Keep in mind that we were married for 12 years and have a 10 year old son together).

 

[NyoxPharma]

I will give you guys the Readers Digest version instead of the long version. So I told my wife in June that I was filing for divorce and I moved out of our home a short time later in July. In my state you have to be separated for 6 months before a divorce can be finalized. I THOUGHT that I was not happy and that my life would be better if I was single. I could have not been more wrong. The grass was defintely not greener on the other side. About 2 weeks ago I I re-contacted her and told her how wrong that I was. Unfortunately she told me that she had moved on and started dating a guy about 2 months ago. She did agree to go out to dinner with me and we had a LONG heart to heart talk. The next day she broke it off with her boyfriend and told me that she was willing to work things out in our marriage. But I am not sure I can get past the thought of her being with another man. I realize that she did not cheat on me and that I was the one who left her. I know its not her fault but I just don't know if I can stomach the thought. How would you guys feel about the situation? Please give an honest opinion. (Keep in mind that we were married for 12 years and have a 10 year old son together).

You fucked up honestly, Personally 6 months or so is a long time how long u two where broken up? 2 months seems kinda quick to start dating someone again honestly but then again you left and then again rebound etc to make her feel better or she just simply moved on.

Your wife has probably fucked 50 guys before you get over it same as you fucked 50 girls before her.

If you love her get back to it and fix it simple. a dick is a dick you left its fucked up on ur part.

but then again im crazy so i would be pissed two months of her just fucking someone ealse but it is what it is lol whatever.

 

[NyoxPharma]

I personally woulnt give a rat ass honestly shit happens deal with it.

If she was cheating on you and sucking someones dick here and there id leave the hoe. but she wasnt. plus you got a kid together. apologize to her get back with her and do not fuck up again simple you have a kid together also that plays a big roll.

 

[Aliendogstar]

I will give you guys the Readers Digest version instead of the long version. So I told my wife in June that I was filing for divorce and I moved out of our home a short time later in July. In my state you have to be separated for 6 months before a divorce can be finalized. I THOUGHT that I was not happy and that my life would be better if I was single. I could have not been more wrong. The grass was defintely not greener on the other side. About 2 weeks ago I I re-contacted her and told her how wrong that I was. Unfortunately she told me that she had moved on and started dating a guy about 2 months ago. She did agree to go out to dinner with me and we had a LONG heart to heart talk. The next day she broke it off with her boyfriend and told me that she was willing to work things out in our marriage. But I am not sure I can get past the thought of her being with another man. I realize that she did not cheat on me and that I was the one who left her. I know its not her fault but I just don't know if I can stomach the thought. How would you guys feel about the situation? Please give an honest opinion. (Keep in mind that we were married for 12 years and have a 10 year old son together).

You're lucky she's even taking you back and willing to work on things. You created this situation so somehow you're going to have to get over it. You need to figure out what made you want to leave to begin with or the cycle will continue.

 

[NyoxPharma]

And your a lucky fuck she really wants you back you idiot. Snatch her as soon as yall had dinner she broke it off with this guy. Make shure she still isnt fucking him cause then id be pissed and if she is i hope by now shes done.

 

[NyoxPharma]

You're lucky she's even taking you back and willing to work on things. You created this situation so somehow you're going to have to get over it. You need to figure out what made you want to leave to begin with or the cycle will continue.

Agreeeeeddddd!!!! VERY LUCKY.

Its HARD to find a good loyal girl these days!!! honestly get over it and suck it up.

I had SAME situation but it was on and off with me and her and another guy i just sucked it up that she did another guy after we broke up and thats it? i did like 10 girls LOL sex is sex it feels good and even better with someone you care about etc but regardless unless theyre a bad fuck and shes feeling bad if you want me to asnwer your question yes she enjoyed fucking him same as you would enjoy right after you left her banging a little hottie. relationships arnt 100% based on sex its more about being FRIENDS/PARTNERS/ ETC. And sex is there lol

Nothing can replace having a loyal partner that will go through anything with you, Iv had both good pussy and my girl its same shit you adapt and simple


suck it up thats it .

 

[Gravel]

You have an obligation as a husband to love your wife through good and bad; good grief you walked out on her. You have a tough road ahead although I believe you can build a stronger marriage because of it. Set a good example for your child.....would you want him to follow in your footsteps and walk away from his marriage if things get tough. Beat the odds and make it work.....I have been married 3 times divorce is not the answer....all you do is create more problems for yourself. Trust me!

 

[JAP426]

THANKS

I think you pretty much summed things up. Yeah I screwed up and I understand what you are saying. You are absolutely right. We had actually been split up about 4 months before you started dating this guy. But hey, what the hell was she supposed to do? I left her. Thanks for your advice

I personally woulnt give a rat ass honestly shit happens deal with it.

If she was cheating on you and sucking someones dick here and there id leave the hoe. but she wasnt. plus you got a kid together. apologize to her get back with her and do not fuck up again simple you have a kid together also that plays a big roll.

 

[JAP426]

Thanks man. Appreciate it.

You're lucky she's even taking you back and willing to work on things. You created this situation so somehow you're going to have to get over it. You need to figure out what made you want to leave to begin with or the cycle will continue.

 

[NyoxPharma]

I think you pretty much summed things up. Yeah I screwed up and I understand what you are saying. You are absolutely right. We had actually been split up about 4 months before you started dating this guy. But hey, what the hell was she supposed to do? I left her. Thanks for your advice

We had actually been split up about 4 months before you started dating this guy. But hey, what the hell was she supposed to do? I left her. Thanks for your advice


Wait what rephrase this? And she needs to CUT COMPLETE CONTACT WITH THE GUY NO MATTER WHAT. UNLESS YOU WANNA SHARE HER

Deal with it bro if she really left him right after dinner you got the upper hand maybe she loves you maybe she doesnt but honestly after 2-3 weeks of breakin g up with someone not even a week id wanna go bang someone so yeah.

 

[JAP426]

Thanks for your advice. I really appreciate it.

You have an obligation as a husband to love your wife through good and bad; good grief you walked out on her. You have a tough road ahead although I believe you can build a stronger marriage because of it. Set a good example for your child.....would you want him to follow in your footsteps and walk away from his marriage if things get tough. Beat the odds and make it work.....I have been married 3 times divorce is not the answer....all you do is create more problems for yourself. Trust me!

 

[NyoxPharma]

Right after you left, How long was it until she started dating the guy? If it was over 2 months its understandable.

If it was 1 month, Id be fucking pissed and question the fuck out of her.

 

[JAP426]

Oh yeah. Trust me. She cut off all ties with this guy. She explained that she realized that she did not care for the guy like she thought. Basically he was just giving her the attention that I did not and she liked it. I don't blame her. I should have told her I loved her 1000 times. But I didn't. Thanks again for your advice.

We had actually been split up about 4 months before you started dating this guy. But hey, what the hell was she supposed to do? I left her. Thanks for your advice


Wait what rephrase this? And she needs to CUT COMPLETE CONTACT WITH THE GUY NO MATTER WHAT. UNLESS YOU WANNA SHARE HER

Deal with it bro if she really left him right after dinner you got the upper hand maybe she loves you maybe she doesnt but honestly after 2-3 weeks of breakin g up with someone not even a week id wanna go bang someone so yeah.

 

[JAP426]

About 4 months.

Right after you left, How long was it until she started dating the guy? If it was over 2 months its understandable.

If it was 1 month, Id be fucking pissed and question the fuck out of her.

 

[NyoxPharma]

Take her back in a heartbeat.

Or Regret it honestly.


And anybody thats human after their spouse leaving them is completely NORMAL to look for ATTENTION / LOVE elsewhere or someone that will LIE to them to make them FEEL GOOD.

Been there done that buddy. Nothing like having a life partner and knowing what you have. Even If through bad keep sticking to it and try to overcome it if you cant overcome it for MONTHS or years to come then you really have to leave.

Dont let the fact that she fucked another guy get to you it's no big deal.

 

[NyoxPharma]

Oh yeah. Trust me. She cut off all ties with this guy. She explained that she realized that she did not care for the guy like she thought. Basically he was just giving her the attention that I did not and she liked it. I don't blame her. I should have told her I loved her 1000 times. But I didn't. Thanks again for your advice.

Fuck her good, Take her out, Give her love and attention. & Spend time with her and your daughter she will never leave you.

Make shure you fuck her good and eat that pussy good or you might have some trouble! lol jk Well you might but i quess shes satisfied with you being with u for 10 years lol

 

[JAP426]

Man, you have a way of putting things. But honestly you are 100% right. I really do thank you for your advice. You don't pull any punches

Take her back in a heartbeat.

Or Regret it honestly.


And anybody thats human after their spouse leaving them is completely NORMAL to look for ATTENTION / LOVE elsewhere or someone that will LIE to them to make them FEEL GOOD.

Been there done that buddy. Nothing like having a life partner and knowing what you have. Even If through bad keep sticking to it and try to overcome it if you cant overcome it for MONTHS or years to come then you really have to leave.

Dont let the fact that she fucked another guy get to you it's no big deal.

 

[JAP426]

Yeah brother, I have fucked her good over the past 7 days. Almost twice a day at that! The Test/Cialis combo is wearing her out for sure!

Fuck her good, Take her out, Give her love and attention. & Spend time with her and your daughter she will never leave you.

Make shure you fuck her good and eat that pussy good or you might have some trouble! lol jk Well you might but i quess shes satisfied with you being with u for 10 years lol

 

[NyoxPharma]

Man, you have a way of putting things. But honestly you are 100% right. I really do thank you for your advice. You don't pull any punches

Been there done that man you dont wanna loose a good girl. or Have the thought of regret for the rest of your life thinking WHAT IF.

Dont let the thought of another guy fucking your girl eat you up.

Embrace it, Now you know what you have you certainly dont want another guy fucking her cause im preety shure theres other guys out there that would want to?


Im not a bullshitter just trying to help ya out to make a right decision you have a little kid together maybe now youll have some rough times and then youll look bad and be like in 5-10 years when your still with her or 30 years and be like fuck im glad she took me back. and you wont regret any moment of being with her.

again dont let the dick shit eat u up she was probably thinking about you honestly a 2 month old guy isnt gunna replace 10 years while she was getting fucked she was probably thinking about you. girls are like that. maybe not depends.

eitherway sex feels good aslong as you LIKE the person or are ATTRACTED to them atleast a LITTLE BIT.

and thats the truth shit if ur wife left you and told you that shit you would of fucked someone ealse in a week when i broke up with my ex a month had passed by i was already by almost 10 girls in a month! well i broke up with her but whatever u get the point we are all human.

If she tells you that shit youd be pissed and hurt and this and that.

of course your going to wanna have someone that makes you feel good and fill that hole temporary when your hurt man. I guarentee you the time she was dating this guy maybe not EVERY single second. But she must of stood there and thought about you and memorys and cried like hell and cause of your daughter etc you dont see that im pretty shure she was really hurt 12 years? cmon id do anything to work shit out if i was with someone for that long? unless they did some fucked up ass shit honestly.

 

[NyoxPharma]

Man i gotta go to the gym this preworkout has me talking too much lol