I don't know what the hell is going on around here lately with all this hostility. I don't know where this thread came from because I don't know where the remarks b-boy made came from. But the point of this thread is that Heinz is leaving the board. That's what he's saying. He's leaving because he felt offended. Maybe hurt. Who knows. I don't think you need to be a road scholar to see that the post was pretty brutal. I know it would have floored my ass because b-boy is a guy that I like and respect. Doggcrap, I see that you brought up the "what does it take to be pro" thread. If you read through that thread, a lot of people were saying some pretty nasty shit. Things that made you think that in order to be a professional BBer that you had to sell drugs, go into debt, wreck your health, etc. Go read it. It's all there. Is that what you think? Is that where these unrealistic people are heading?
Yet here's where I find myself scratching my head. If you and others are backing and rallying behind b-boy (as I am as well, love you man!) then aren't you steering him into a life of misery, debt, sickness, gay-for-pay, etc. All that bullshit that people were saying in that other thread? It was pretty rough. Pathetic actually. Certainly didn't get me pumped.
This is Professional Muscle. Aren't we all trying to be at least as professional as we can be? Why the hell would anyone want to discourage anyone for any reason? Just so they won't be let down when they see they can't make it? That's their decision. Who cares if it's delusional? Half the people in this world are deluded - thinking they are going to be a huge success when the numbers say they will not. So what???
Is that what we do now? Go around illuminating everyone to the fact that they will not make and are being completely unrealistic? I don't think we should do that. I know you don't believe that. And even if we do, it can be personal and private and done with some grace and some tact. You just don't go charging around dashing everyones hopes and then pat yourself on the back for saving them from some horrible fate and guaranteed let-down. I know you're not a pro but you train people and have contributed a lot to this sport. You profit and make your living from these same poor, unrealistic bastards.
You know, you should be careful what you preach to your target market. They might just start taking your word for it you know?
Heinz, I apologize openly for not being more vigilant in seeing these posts. Normally we don't talk to people around here like that but lately people have been pretty rough. I'd like you to stay around and the guys sure seem to like you contribution as you can see. The only problems seem to be coming from your peers and I don't know what that's all about. Maybe as another member said, "People just resent it." - you being a pro that is. Well let them resent it. That's on them. You live your life.
Check your PMs.
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