my best friend

[thebrute]

BTW...thanx for the replies on my last thread on here...i have another issue i would like to talk about....

since january i've been living with my best friend and for the first few months everything was awesome...we were sharing more stuff, talkin all the time about everything, etc.

but now we've gone thru some rough spots in our relationship generally after i blew the motor in his car which was my fault and already making headway to make amends but ever since that happened, things have changed. now, i have to pull teeth just to have a conversation with him...that or staple his feet to the floor. the last serious conversation we had was two weeks ago and now its as if that conversation never happened now. i'm stuck on what to do and how to bring this up. he's practically my brother now and it seems like all i do is make him angry or unhappy as of late. i also work with him and the only time he talks to me is in reference to work...that's it, nothing else. that and not being in the gym too....can anyone help me out on this?
HCB

 

[AsylumBitch]

Have you told him how you feel about this? Maybe if you sat down and tell him pretty much exactly what you just posted, it may bring out what's going on with him.
Just a thought.

 

[louawad]

honestly, it sounds like you guys need some time off...a friendship is like any other relationship...sometimes a break is needed.

The fact that you two live together/work together/workout together maybe is too much.

When I moved in with one of my friends (not my best friend) I got really pissed at the little stuff he did...although he was still a good friend, I got annoyed very easily. We started lifting together, ate together...and although we became better friends at first, in time I just couldnt stand him sometimes.

The fact that you fcked up his car may have pissed him off, but the fact that he saw u all the time did not give him time to "recover" perse. He may not be pissed at you, but he is upset.

You should definitly talk to him about it. Maybe there is other stuff going on in his life that you don't know about. He may not even realize how he is acting towards you.

Your first step should be to talk to him about it.

 

[Crowler]

Well sounds like he is pissed you blew his engine. I will bet you still haven't paid him back but have been buying some small dollar items for yourself right?

If so that is what screwed up your friendship. IMO pay him back fast but it really wont help the friendship a whole lot.


If you have paid him back then he is just being weird about it so forget it.


CROWLER

 

[JETHRO TULL]

SOMETIMES BEING ROOMATES CAN KILL A FRIENDSHIP.

YOU FIND OUT FOR INSTANCE THAT THEY LET THEIR DISHES BUILD UP UNTIL THE HOUSE SMELLS AND THEY DON'T GIVE A DARN ABOUT MAKING MESSES ALL OVER AND PAYING THEIR SHARE OF THE RENT ON TIME. IT CAN MAKE YOU DISLIKE A FORMER BUDDY. IT HAPPENED TO ME.

 

[Steak Helmet]

if you live together, work together, and head to the gym together...yes that can get old real fast.

Give him his space and fix his engine...do not buy anything big until you pay him back...that would piss him off.

 

[Mr Pickles]

YOU FIND OUT FOR INSTANCE THAT THEY LET THEIR DISHES BUILD UP UNTIL THE HOUSE SMELLS AND THEY DON'T GIVE A DARN ABOUT MAKING MESSES ALL OVER AND PAYING THEIR SHARE OF THE RENT ON TIME. IT CAN MAKE YOU DISLIKE A FORMER BUDDY. IT HAPPENED TO ME.

jhahahahahaha... story of my life

im gonna take a pic of my boy's place.... its filth and he forces it on me...

you'll die laughing