O/T - how many times per week

Samsonite · Dec 10, 2006

Ok, a little off topic here, but me and the GF got into a little spackle last night, and I'm still a little steamed about it.

Anyways, heres what Im asking, lol. How many times per week do you have sex?

Through out the week im pretty tired and usually dont feel like having sex, i get up at 5:15 for work, hit the gym, eat dinner and by that time its usually 8pm, i havent had a shower yet, etc.

Now, on the weekends, once I get rested up, I will typically like to have sex 5-8 times on Sat and Sunday since I have the energy and am in the mood.

This has been an ongoing issue between the two of us, and honestly there is ntohign that makes you more paranoid and pissed than your GF telling you that kind of thing. This wasn't the only thing we argued about, but the one that pissed me off the most.. lol.. Also, lets face it, after 2 1/2 years, the sex life slows a bit. If i had a new GF Im sure I would probably make the extra effort when I was tired since its more exciting, etc.

also, you guys/gals all know me, this is just my other name for these personal i.e. embaressing, questions, hahah..

LATS · Dec 10, 2006

now that i have two kids, who are the best method for birth control out there, i get when i can.. if she wakes me up at 1 am and is ready.. i will be al; ittle trooper and make the effort.. cause i dont know when it will be again..lol but, going five days without it might make the girlffriend feel a little like she is not attractive.. most guys are trying constantly to have sex and she is probably hearing that from her girlfriends ect..

Kahn · Dec 10, 2006

Women are a different machine than we are. They get used to not having sex and they'll quit forever. Guys think about it even more. Pre-marraige was 5 times a week, post marraige is like 1 time per week. I'd say your 5-8 times on the weekend is over the top. Getting it that much is a gift. Having her wake you up at 1am is a gift. You back off the 5-8 times and put out more during the week and you'll both be better off. You are lucky she does what she does, if you argue, it'll turn it into an issue that could short circuit the whole deal. Good Luck.