Negativity? You do understand that this board was created when you were 5 years old and we've seen a ton of guys come in here talking themselves up. Guys that after 2-3 months never sign back in, ever.
Nobody is doubting your capabilities as a father, but when you state that you're "well established" in your career as a mortgage loan originator at 20 yrs old, you're going to get called on it, big time. Kid, you were in elementary school when the bubble popped, so you literally experienced NOTHING from it. I've tried to give you the benefit of the doubt, but I can assure you, you are NOT "well established" in your career. You haven't the slightest clue of what well established means. I hope you do well, but as I said before, unless you own the business/brokerage (or your relatives do) or have been there for a good amount of time (which is impossible due to your age and legal restrictions in said field) you are out the door jobless if the market poops again. There's some real world for you.
You don't like negativity? You better run the hell away from bodybuilding then buddy! Bodybuilding isn't some snuggle circle where everyone tells each other how great they are, it's brutal. You need thicker skin or you'll be here a very short time
Everyone is "cut from a different cloth" broski. Until they find out their not.
Look up Phil Viz. Guy came here talking a lot like you, the difference? He backed it up FOR YEARS and still is NOT a pro! He's got a great physique too! You think that you're going to hit the gym, takes some sauce and be a pro? Crap, go hit some balls off a tee and you can play MLB while you're at it!
Prove us ALL wrong, please do! Nobody here wants you to fail at your dream, we just think you are full of it. You talk yourself up, like most newbies do, and then they fizzle out. Which is what we all expect you to do here shortly. Again, PROVE US WRONG!!!