B
babyface4life
Guest
Haha, yeah, not as effective as I would hope for. For you or me, sure that worked when we were kids. I know when I was a kid and we fucked around, Dad would come home and give us a good ass beating. It seemed to do the trick....you don't want to many of those and it would make you think twice before you did something stupid. This kid....he's scared shitless of the consequences right before he realizes that he is about to pay the price for what he's just done. However, he has no impulse control. I am convinced that the thought that there could be consequences for his actions simply does not enter his mind at all when he is pulling his stupid stunts and misbehaving. I just don't get it....he obviously has some mental deficiencies, but he is going to have to get over them. You cannot be a productive member of society when you're going through life like this.
Keep in mind , some people as adults never become productive members of society no matter what . I'm speaking from experience . Sometimes you work hard , do everything you can to bring up a kid with good moral and responsibilities and wonder where you went wrong .
I , myself , had learning disabilities and some behavior problems in school and was placed in special classes from junior high throughout high school and graduated with a special diploma .
I was able to enlist in 2 branches of the military and never accompliced anything I can be proud of other then a good conduct medal for staying out of trouble . If your girls kid has mental defeciencies like you say they may or may not get better in adulthood , and as parants we have to accept this .
I can certainly understand your frustration , but the kid didn't choose to have these problems and you can only hope the outcome you seek will turn out for the best with counseling , meds , possibly a special school to send the kid to .