O/T relationship advice

[USnavy]

I dated this girl for a while and after a month or so she told me she wanted her space but I found out she actually went back with her ex. the guy pretty much treats her like shit and does not treat her like she deserves. she texts me once in a while to see how im doing and well talk for a little bit and she said shes happy.. but i dont think she is. i really miss her but now that shes in a relationship everyone saying to let it go and move on... dont try to interfere if she has a bf..anyone have a similar situation?

 

[BOOMSHAKER]

I dated this girl for a while and after a month or so she told me she wanted her space but I found out she actually went back with her ex.

STOP right there and walk away! Stop answering her emails, text messages and phone calls! Period! Doesn't matter how he treats her! Doesn't matter if you could treat her better. ALL THAT MATTERS IS SHE WANTS TO BE WITH HIM AND NOT YOU! PERIOD! And if she walked out on you one time she'll do it again! So man the F@CK up and move on!

 

[warrenpeace]

Yeah, you're way too available. Once you've established yourself in the friend's zone there's no turning back! Though sadly, if you start ignoring here she'll probably want you back lol.

 

[triathloncoach]

Boomshaker is right

Man up and let her go. Or try to get a side deal going with her. Don't be friends. But I'd kill the emotional attachment to her ASAP.

 

[matttx]

hate to break it to you dude. i was in the same boat a few months ago.

just like everyone else said. forget her and move on.

 

[Adammoretti3456]

nahhh im in the same boat except she wasnt really an ex and we dont talk now but i stilll say u fight for her

 

[anabolicwealth]

Agreed. Time to stop communication. All she is wanting is attention from you both.

 

[cpesloco]

if she was happy or trying to be happy with her ex then she would stop talking to you completely.

you can either let her know your done talking to her or you could find your self in some drama. you being there gives her comfort. decide if that's what you want to do.

your choice, your life of course

 

[SOCOM]

Does he really treat her like shit, or do you just feel you could treat her better?

Either way..like everyone has said, walk away and find someone else. But I would definetley stop all communication with her, just makes shit more difficult.

 

[powerox]

Yep, you'll end up being a miseralbe #@#$. Have fun!


PO

 

[Tylerman]

she only maintains contact with you cuz youre her security blanket if it doesnt work out with him

 

[wrought]

STOP right there and walk away! Stop answering her emails, text messages and phone calls! Period! Doesn't matter how he treats her! Doesn't matter if you could treat her better. ALL THAT MATTERS IS SHE WANTS TO BE WITH HIM AND NOT YOU! PERIOD! And if she walked out on you one time she'll do it again! So man the F@CK up and move on!

Agree 100%, doesn't get much clearer than that.

 

[youngbeast2231]

Man up and let her go. Or try to get a side deal going with her. Don't be friends. But I'd kill the emotional attachment to her ASAP.

well put. if you dont kill the attachment its gonna kill you inside

 

[MonkeyBoy]

Does he really treat her like shit, or do you just feel you could treat her better?

Either way..like everyone has said, walk away and find someone else. But I would definetley stop all communication with her, just makes shit more difficult.

This comment is so true...I would be willing to bet she complained about her ex to you but think about...human nature is to complain, most girls and guys never talk about the great things with someone new?

Sorry, not easy to move on but you want a girl who wants to be with you 100%, not thinking about her ex.