I am a big " you can do anything you set your mind to guy ". So I agree with your point, however sometimes the subject in question shows behaviors and habits that make it very clear they will never go very far. This is one of those cases, and I think Slesh is right on. If you aren't genetically a plus and want to look like Hawk - then you need to be that motherfucker. When you spend all your time thinking about the next thread you can make focusing on minutia that has already been covered at length, you ain't that motherfucker. I personally would rather know the truth sooner than later!