I also think its an imbalance of hormones, I use to keep my E2 right around 28, then I found that I actually felt better and had a much higher libido with an elevated E2.
I think it's part mental, guys freak if they think something is wrong, compounding the problem. I would cut your aromisin dose of just stop it for a few days. If I ever need a quick boost of estro I'll take some dhea caps.
Howuch hcg are you using and how often? What again is your dosing schedule and amounts, and what other prescription and non prescription drugs are you taking. You need to list any and everything.
I would add some cialis, I know you said you can maintain an erection, but the addition will allow you to not have to focus on staying hard and can focus on getting into what you are doing. I have been in the same place before, normally I can't keep my hands off my woman, actually she's the only woman that I literally think about sleeping with at all times and can't get enough even after 6 years.
When I had labs, my numbers were similar to yours. I added caber which didn't help at first, I then stopped my ai which was what helped. At that point I started to use very little ai on cycles, use hcg, dhea, and for some reason 5-HTP really seems to help (Natrol brand before bed). Not sure if this is just in my mind but seems to help.
But I think you would do better with a little higher E2. And I think you should check your BP, which can have an effect. It sucks to have a beautiful woman next to you and no desire at all to touch her. Mine took it hard at first and thought I wasn't attracted or was cheating, and she goes out of her way to dress up for me or whatever I want, plus she is sooooo sexy, I had to just explain to her that I had a hormonal imbalance, and it was not a problem with her at all. She was very cool about it and basically said, you can't resist this for too long so I'll give you some time, then she made sure to look great everyday, would walk around the house it tiny outfits and heels, I stopped the ai, added dhea and 5-HTP, and cialis, but erections weren't my problem either, but it was enough to at least give her some and took a minute for me to get my head in the game because I was thinking more about stating hard, and thinking hopefully she will get off quick so we could be done, crazy feeling because I normally cannot get enough.
Hang in there, have you had this issue on long ester test? I just wonder if your estro fluctuates to quickly. And your labs may not be a real accurate pic,,your estro could be higher or lower depending on dosing and testing.
Stewie is pretty smart and will give you very good advise. But start to relax and not worry, if she knows you are on gear, tell her flat out, you somehow have an imbalance of hormones and are getting it straight and she better enjoy the break because she will be begging for one once you figure it out. You will be fine soon so try to relax about it.