I need some advice/help more than ever

pesty4077 · Dec 26, 2015

I always say wait until you are about 30 to get married. If she is 22, then you married her at 20. I just can't see to many people this age anymore spending the rest of their lives with the same person. Sounds like she is having second regrets and is looking for excuses to leave you. I could be wrong, but I didn't hear her side of the story. What ever the outcome, you will bounce back. You will also learn and be stronger for this. She doing this on Christmas tells me she has not the same feelings as you.

anarchocapitalist · Dec 30, 2015

I think you are being emotionally abused.

If she is threatening to divorce you quickly without considering something emotionally stable such as counseling ...

... dont let her leave.
... you leave her.

I agree with the poster above who mentioned this is a blessing but you wont see it yet for another six months.

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My advice to you would be to stop dating and depending on girls. Find who you are first.

SHOTGUN · Dec 30, 2015

Chin up, Kid. I got married young and it didnt go as planned. I feel like marriage should wait until you both have your life together. She's only 22 and has a lot of issues with her past. Let's be honest, there are close to 3 Billion women on earth, Bro. There are probably 100's of thousands that look just like her.

My advice is to focus on you 100%. .Once you have your shit together, I promise you, you will be choosing the one you want. It shouldn't be a struggle.