we sure do got some homophobes on this board dont we
I was the one who made the first comment, but it was an observation, not a call to be offended or violent. If what he wrote was verbatim, then it's what I actually thought. Who likes getting pinned in the ass? and who talks with strangers about it, men strangers?
Back when i was in shape enough to get asked this question by those looking to obtain, they wouldn't do it in this manner. The guy said he was already on it, not a good way to obtain. Possible he was simply awkward, but those shy enough to be awkward usually wouldn't make such a personal comment as to talk about their ass.
If a strange girl approached me and essentially said, " do you work out, I work out, and I don't look that good" and then proceeded to talk about her ass; I'd likely think she's interested also. If I ignored openings like that, it's possible I'd never get laid
The OP asked if "people were this stupid?". The answer is yes, but maybe he was smart. He approached a big man who he was interested in and felt him out to see if it was mutual, he realized it wasn't, and moved on, and avoided getting the shit knocked out of him depending on the guy he's asking. That's what it sounded like to me, in which case, he wasn't necessarily stupid, just brazen.