My father was my idol! He was a super genius and taught me about life and the world everyday. I have to say a close second is the gym! I've been lifting for 40 years. Always based on strength training. Being the strongest man in the room at all times completely changed me. Sure I had aches and pains but I never got sick like everyone else did. I always took pride in my appearance. Neat and trim, groomed and well dressed. Now that I'm over 60 people never, ever guess how old I am. All guys my age are fat, bald, weak, unattractive, sickly, feel like shit and never get laid. My girlfriend looks at them and says what the hell is wrong with people? Don't they see you? Don't they want that too? LOL I hate to say it but I think of the world as Us (gym guys) and them. She's 25 years younger and knows I'm on HRT while I pound her into the headboard! She shakes her head in wonder and says "Why don't they do what you do?" 1 hour a day between being super man, or fat old gross and waiting to die. Sorry but it's true.