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Whats up guys this is a pretty personal topic and its hard for me to even type but its driving me nuts and i need some help. So ive been dating a girl now for 4 months and things are going great with the exception of one area...the sex(for me it's fine but I'm not able to get her off) A little background on her, she is a good girl, 24 and only slept with a few guys. So after about a month of having sex she made a comment that she didn't think I'd be able to get her off during sex and that her first boyfriend ruined her because he was so big...I honestly didn't even know what to say to that, he was 4 years ago and she says she has no feelings for him at all, but that nobody since him has given her an orgasm. I'm not small by any means, i consider myself average sized, but my concern is that if I'm not able to get her off that it will only lead to unhappiness down the line for her and maybe even infidelity. Other than this our relationship is pretty amazing, but it's definitely on both of our minds. Please only serious comments thanks